Naked Science Forum
On the Lighter Side => New Theories => Topic started by: nopillwillfill on 28/02/2010 21:44:25
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I am so excited to find this message board!!!!!!
For years I have been getting blank strange looks from Dr.'s, yogi's, friends, any anybody I asked about the wicked hangover I was experiencing about 12 hours after ejaculating ( from sex or masturbation or a wet dream.) I also started having a sour attitude towards the feeling of having an orgasm. Not enjoying the sensation - saying "what is the big deal anyway"! I also wondered if I was being punished for those normal sexual exploration things I did as a kid, if it was a psychological guilt complex of some kind. Who knows I guess.
I started noticing it around the age of 26 - I am now 45. I am a fiercely healthy person, eat well, happy, and living the high quality of life of a middle class person in North America. I tried many things (on my own, not know what the heck it might be) but the conclusion was always the same - ejaculating just ain't worth it.
I feel like a raisin, subtly achy, drawn, tired, a bit down, dull in the head and emptied out the whole next day, and for what???? 30 seconds of muscles tingling and throbbing? No thanks.
[ Miles Davis (the musician) was once asked in an interview in Playboy magazine if he would fight Mohammed Ali and he said yes but only under one condition, that Ali agreed to ejaculate just before the fight! I know why he said that. ]
For a while, I was pressing the "million dollar spot" ( heard somebody call it that) is it the kegal muscle? in the crotch (with my fingers) that stopped the ejaculate from being expelled from the body but still had the experience of orgasm but that worried me - as I thought I might be harming my system doing that.
So, as a result, I only ejaculate about 5 times a year now, if that.
I have all the amazing sex I want but focus on everything but "climaxing". I have the most long lasting terrific sex life. It is fun always pulling back away from orgasming - I go all night long. I have surfed the board looking if anyone has cracked the mystery and it looks to me like no one has. Till then, it is what it is. I do everything under the sun [:0] except orgasm is my theory. I love it. A great part of it is also that women try to get men to Orgasm - it is their mindset about that - thinking it is what makes men happy and will keep them satisfied. That challenge just makes it more fun for me. [:)] I last longer than any man I know!
Thanks for this forum - it is the first I heard that anyone else ever experienced feeling there was a problem after ejaculation.
One thing I do wonder about though, is, whether or not, interrupting ejaculation might be unhealthy in some other way.
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I have also had to enroll alll the women I have been with to understand and support me in my point of view about orgasming. They are all almost always curious and helpful about it.
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I would like to hear how other people have successfully adapted and managed their sex life and avoided climaxing(to avoid the hangover) - if there are any stories out there? What is working and what is not working? [8)]