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I hope you find a "middle ground" in life. Nothing is absolute in this imperfect world. Not humans, not any of us, not me, and not you. Go easy on yourself ... and others. Read these rules of lifehttp://www.businessballs.com/rulesoflife.htmAnd read this too
I'm not even sure if SBC wanted friends. I think he flourished on the fact that he needed to keep saying how isolated he was.
Quote from: Mr. Scientist on 04/12/2009 00:28:42Nizzle is just being picky. But that's Nizzle.Naaa..she's dense !! (as usual)
Nizzle is just being picky. But that's Nizzle.
It's a shame. I read though quite a few of his posts (but not all) and I can't see how anyone could have done anything more for him! I don't understand Nizzle's 'modify option' comment - am I missing something? Or just being a bit dense (as usual)?
Just for this ...Just for this ..Mr.BenV Banned me (How stupid?)Ok first I made with multiple quote bars .. Ok I admit it that it was a mistake.than I never repeated it.
Than I replied my self with Just reply... THAN HE BANNED ME !!for WHAT ?for Water on Moon post ...ONLY RELATED TO POST I replied HHEEEEEEEEEE BANNED ME ScientificboysClub
than I entered as ScientificBoysClub(sbc) ..after a month HE banned ME for for telling the truth that I am SBC.
than Kiran the king kai I removed my self .. due to stress.I am ready to remove this too but I gave a word to Mr.BenV that i will not remove this account again .so I did not...AND he always did not like my old account NAME SBC ..always asked me for "Why your naming it SBC this shows NO BAN ON YOU ?" "HE is taking it personal "
When this MAD MAN Soul Surfer(who was jealous of me !) started BLAMING me for copying a article which I never DID in my life ..I reported it to BenV. But he never removed it ?cos he might be his friend !...he allowed those false reply of soul surfer.. which was not fare !!
Soul Surfer - many of SBC's posts (in other threads if not this one) are his own, and English is not his first language. Please bear this in mind when correcting something he's said.
As a USER, don't I have a choice of NAMING my own account NAME ?He has BANNED SBC forever JUST for self reply .So I removed SBC !!EVEN now he banned my email ID Of SBC.I followed every rule in this forum.but,BenV Banned me as if I am a SPAMMER !!!Why ME ?WHy ?
I'd like to say, in defence of the moderators, that none of them are evil, and do not just support their friends. In fact, the moderators were kind enough to let Kiran back on the forum after he was banned for vandalising several threads.
Right then. Lets put this to bed shall we?Quote from: ScientificBoyZClub on 08/12/2009 14:39:09Just for this ...Just for this ..Mr.BenV Banned me (How stupid?)Ok first I made with multiple quote bars .. Ok I admit it that it was a mistake.than I never repeated it.We had complaints - that kind of grafitti on the forum made those threads completely unreadable. We warned first then banned, as a result of further complaints.QuoteThan I replied my self with Just reply... THAN HE BANNED ME !!for WHAT ?for Water on Moon post ...ONLY RELATED TO POST I replied HHEEEEEEEEEE BANNED ME ScientificboysClubNope, this was for being incredibly rude and ignoring your ban, creating a new account and posting again.Quotethan I entered as ScientificBoysClub(sbc) ..after a month HE banned ME for for telling the truth that I am SBC.Again - why should we let you get around a ban when no-one else is allowed? It was very very rude of you, and an insult to the moderators and users of this forum.Quotethan Kiran the king kai I removed my self .. due to stress.I am ready to remove this too but I gave a word to Mr.BenV that i will not remove this account again .so I did not...AND he always did not like my old account NAME SBC ..always asked me for "Why your naming it SBC this shows NO BAN ON YOU ?" "HE is taking it personal "I don't even understand this bit. I couldn't care less what you are called. I was pleased that when you came back (as Kiran) you decided not to use the same name that had been banned, because it then wouldn't attract complaints as to you being seen to have skirted a ban. I were happy to allow you to discuss the science, but asked you to refrain from talking about friendship as this had been covered in the threads you had created as SBC.I took nothing personally, was polite and reasonable at all times.QuoteWhen this MAD MAN Soul Surfer(who was jealous of me !) started BLAMING me for copying a article which I never DID in my life ..I reported it to BenV. But he never removed it ?cos he might be his friend !...he allowed those false reply of soul surfer.. which was not fare !!If anyone would care to read the thread in question you will see that I defended SBC, pointing out to Soul Surfer the following:QuoteSoul Surfer - many of SBC's posts (in other threads if not this one) are his own, and English is not his first language. Please bear this in mind when correcting something he's said.It's here if you would like to read the exchange - http://www.thenakedscientists.com/forum/index.php?topic=27091.0QuoteAs a USER, don't I have a choice of NAMING my own account NAME ?He has BANNED SBC forever JUST for self reply .So I removed SBC !!EVEN now he banned my email ID Of SBC.I followed every rule in this forum.but,BenV Banned me as if I am a SPAMMER !!!Why ME ?WHy ?Well, this has been explained to you in private and now in public. When you were first banned, your email address was banned too - this is normal. Using the same username after a ban is just rude - it's an insult to the moderators and the people who wish to see this forum moderated properly. Had you asked and been patient, the original ban would probably have been lifted. As soon as you signed up a new account, using a proxy to get around the ban, this was made very unlikely.
So you didn't notice that the excessive self replying, with little to no scientific content, made those threads unreasonable and would put people who wanted to discuss science off joining the forum?
You don't get to decide what the banning period is.Again: "Had you asked and been patient, the original ban would probably have been lifted. As soon as you signed up a new account, using a proxy to get around the ban, this was made very unlikely."Just coming back after a ban, ignoring your ban and sneaking your way around it is a very rude thing to do.
What's causing your stress?
So you don't have any friends and see no way of making some. Fair enough - give up. Just find things that you enjoy doing and stop worrying about other people.