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yes of course Hadrian!!!!! [] [] []you made omid feel loser [:-'(] [:-'(] [:-'(]
no omid i can make you fell anything only you can do that as they are your feelings.so why do you chose to fell a loser?
They are not qualities they are choices.we can all change the way we chose to react.it may take a little time and that dose not mean we have to give up.just being aware that the way we react is not helping us is the big step forward yes?
so what would hapen if you did not think that?
It sound like you have invested a lot of energy in being loser you must be very successful at it. I can see why you might not wish to choose to be anything else. Being unsuccessful at absolutely everything is very hard to achieve. I am impressed. Well done. []
I can say i am not(and i am not) but you wont believe me will you?if you like being loser then who am i do say otherwise?bottom line is, what ever way you think you are then that's the way you are.think you are loser and soon you will behave like one.change the way you think, its your choice.its up to you.
well now that's intresting in it not. []well perhaps if you take a look at one of thouse areas where you feel less successful and apply the same effort and attitude as you do to areas where you are successful things might change. you are anyting but a loser in 99% of your life so don't label yourself or think of you self based on the 1% or 2% (OK lets not get stuck on percentages)
Making friends with people and having intimate relationships with others requires skill. Some people have a lot of natural ability at this others have to learn it. It’s not unlike selling except you are marketing yourself. Do be good at this you have to build trust. Rapport is key. Rapport Rapport Rapport. Maybe lower you expectations a little at first. Perhaps set out to simply enjoy the company of others. Like selling it get harder if you are desperate.
OK try to learn about Rapport http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapport if you master rapport you will be successfull with girls too
then you are not building rapport with them even if you think you are.