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Re: Love
« Reply #175 on: 23/07/2006 07:19:18 »
Loretta,
I am not satisfied with my marraige and if the right person was available and things were different I would take a chance on that new love. My husband and I are friends, We share our children and love them with all we have. But we do not share the love that we once thought we did. My husband made that clear to me when he stepped out. He does things constantly to remind me of his little adventure. I have just stopped caring about that anymore, It only made me question myself and try to blame myself for years for a decision he made! I have come to the conclusion that this was not my fault. He wanted a relationship with no strings attached, so he had an fling if you will! I always believed I would be married for better or worse, but I know in my heart that worse is no way to live and God forgive me I will leave one Day! I cannot see myself in a marraige like this forever. Loretta, time will heal old wounds, you may never forget, but also don't ever think YOU have nothing to give! That is purely ridiculous! You are one of the brightest, funniest, caring, persons I have ever met! You give so much every day! Please don't forget that. ...love you friend....Karen

 
So Loretta, the answer is yes, I would say goodbye to my husband and my friend as weather he is willing to admit it, thats what he wants. He does not want to make the first move! heaven knows why! Obligation I don't know, who's to say!

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Originally posted by moonfire

LOL  Thanks Karen!  Maybe you are the reason why people see the sign "I just broke up with my boyfriend" it has to be on my forehead somewhere in neon lights??  

I know you are right about the walls...I admit it, I feel it very strongly inside me...

Karen, I don't think I have so much to give anymore.  I think I am rather boring and have no life.  I wish it were true...I just don't know if I want to share my secrets or what makes me tick with another person again...is it worth it is the question?  My heart would be broken again if I were to fall in love again????  Do I want to do that or not?

Are you satisfied with your marriage as it stands?  Is it enough for you?  What if someone finds interest in you and is madly in love with you...what do you do?  You are married, but are you married for better or worse???

Thanks for the prayers...not sure if I have much love, romance, or passion anymore than an amphibian...

"Lo" Loretta

« Last Edit: 23/07/2006 16:52:25 by Karen W. »
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #176 on: 23/07/2006 11:07:04 »
Wow Karen!  I had no idea!  What an arrangement!  Bless your heart!  A love that is with strings attached....a marriage with no strings attached...hmmm, interesting, but so sad.  It is cruel to  me for someone to remind a person of something done wrong to remind the innocent party of it as if it were your fault...and GOOD FOR YOU...YOU KNOW IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT!!  I am sure it is difficult for time to heal your wounds as you still face the adversary...betrayal of heart is one of the most difficult things to live with...once that door has been opened anything could happen...I know it sounds utterly ridiculous of myself to say that I have nothing to give..let me rephrase it...I don't want to give anything else!  Maybe that is a better way to say it?  Who knows maybe 6 months down the line or 6 years I may change my mind...but I have a feeling I am going to have parameters which will be unpenetratable...

ho, hum...life is so unpredictable...sometimes the when the door is open,you never know where the journey begins....

"Lo" Loretta
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #177 on: 23/07/2006 16:59:55 »
You know Loretta, I never dared say that out loud to myself or otherwise. I have come a long way, and so have you. Loretta I know you will be fine, and I understand that you don't want to give anymore. These are decisions that are so hard. I am glad you are really thinking hard about it and you have not completely given up on love, at least you have the possibility of maybe someday! Sometimes that is all there is.  Love you friend!....Karen
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Re: Love
« Reply #178 on: 23/07/2006 17:12:37 »
I think it is good to say it out loud sometimes it helps process it better in my mind.  Yes, we have come along ways!  Yes, I get tired of giving so much of myself to another person, that it hurts!  I don't know if I will allow anyone else my heart like I have done in the past....I know, I know the darn prongs over my heart...it is ugly, but it does protect it.  Love them and leave them, right..hehe  Just kidding..I only hope for you to have true love and happiness my friend...I know one day, you will have it!  I am still thinking about the little lizard thing and the guy...hehe  Typical.. :-)

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Re: Love
« Reply #179 on: 23/07/2006 21:11:10 »


Karen - sometimes it does feel better to unburden yourself, and have good cry if feel like it.


Take care

Love you lots

Helena  xxx


 

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Re: Love
« Reply #180 on: 23/07/2006 22:10:55 »
Thanks Helena, I know you are right! I feel so guilty though as I never thought I would be in a position to just Leave my marriage! I guess life will dictate how I shall proceed as I do not know! One day at a time, I suppose, ehh!


Loretta, Did you reread that cute story as I remailed it to you? I apparently missed the end when I copied it for you, and I did not check it well! Re attached the ending in proper place!

Love you lots ......Karen
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #181 on: 23/07/2006 22:51:20 »

Karen - One day you will wake up and know that the day has come for you to make your move,
 be patient my friend it will come. So until then take each day as it comes.

Take care.

Love you lots

Helena  xxx


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Re: Love
« Reply #182 on: 24/07/2006 04:18:37 »
Karen, Yes, I still laughed my butt off....but I did get the gist of it.

"Lo" Loretta
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #183 on: 24/07/2006 05:00:39 »
I love that joke, Hey Helena want me to send it to you its good for a laugh?
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #184 on: 24/07/2006 05:55:46 »
It is truly worth it as I know you have an open mind Helena!

"Lo" Loretta
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #185 on: 24/07/2006 10:43:43 »

O.K. Karen please send it - if you think my innocence

could stand it LOL.


Love you lots

Helena   xxx



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Re: Love
« Reply #186 on: 24/07/2006 11:11:45 »
Helena Just sent it your way.whoops sorry sent recipe again too!
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #187 on: 24/07/2006 11:52:40 »
Karen, Love the recipe...mmmmmm, I can't wait to make it.  Advacado,mmmm. love it!  what is up?  I am so tired my brain worked too much on applications last night for Memphis Roc program..why do they have to be so big???  Marketing Director sent me an email about 441, I almost fainted..I am 25% done with it and did it all by myself....so I know when I shot her my results she probably fainted, but I had to leave at 9pm my neck was killing me...aagghh!

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Re: Love
« Reply #188 on: 24/07/2006 15:23:13 »


Karen - recipe sounds delicious,

will have to try this soon.


Love you lots

Helena  xxx



 

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Re: Love
« Reply #189 on: 24/07/2006 16:06:12 »
i can make CEREAL!!!!!!!!!!!!! yay

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Re: Love
« Reply #190 on: 24/07/2006 16:14:35 »
Nice tony! Can you eat it too? Is it Frosted Flakes? LOL....Karen
 

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« Reply #191 on: 24/07/2006 16:24:38 »
froot loops!

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Re: Love
« Reply #192 on: 24/07/2006 19:36:56 »



Ah bless him.


Love you lots

Helena  xxx


 

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Re: Love
« Reply #193 on: 24/07/2006 21:00:02 »
sigh, youth and a light heart...I think I am in love with his youthfulness!

"Lo" Loretta
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #194 on: 24/07/2006 21:39:29 »



Loretta - Yes it's so refreshing.


Love you lots

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Re: Love
« Reply #195 on: 25/07/2006 02:17:51 »
Tony, I used to love Fruitloops and Banannas. Its been years since I have eaten them.....Karen
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #196 on: 25/07/2006 04:17:38 »
EWWWW!  LOL  I guess it beats broccoli and chocolate ice cream!  LOL  I like honey bunches of oats w/almonds...with bananas thrown on top...beautiful.

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« Reply #197 on: 25/07/2006 07:20:18 »
Actually lo,that sounds pretty good. I always have to be careful as I am allergic to walnuts. Sometimes those others are processed on same belt as walnuts and then look out!! I don't go into shock or anything like some people, but I do get these very obnoctious hives all over my tummy, bottom of my whittle feet and between toes and fingers and on palms  ewwwwwweeeeee! they ictch so badly that I am very parinoid about reading the labels! Must be careful!  ......Karen
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #198 on: 25/07/2006 12:35:44 »
okay nothing but coco pebbles for you!  made from rice...lol  Just teasing you...I will grind up wheat and boil it for you...lol  Teasing you girl!  allergic to walnuts??  oh so sad!

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Re: Love
« Reply #199 on: 25/07/2006 16:15:07 »
Walnuts, wine,coffee, and chocolate. I can eat any of them except the walnuts. The coffee if not too much, the chocloate as long as I don't eat too much or combine them with other cafienated items acidy products as that also results in Hives.... I love chocolate. chocolate chip cookies are my favorite warm out of the oven with a glass of whole milk. Then I like molasses crinkles, and peanut butter chocolate chip cookies! oooh, I best leave this topic alone or I'll be in there mixing up something I don't need! Geesh!  I do love cereals although Cautious is my middle name!....Karen
 

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