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« Reply #425 on: 23/08/2006 21:48:05 »
Here you go, just to make you romantic peeps feel much betta...Loving you, it's so easy to say I love you...LOL  Okay, Otis, I admit...it was a pretty good post...and a GREAT BIG WELCOME!!!  ;-)  Don't let me dampen your spirits...I just have an issue going on in my own life and used to love romance...right now..I am sick of seeing bears, flowers, bracelets, books, stationary, perfumes, around my house...I just broke up with someone a few months ago and they refuse to let go...so romance these peeps away..I will try to do my best to behave and then maybe....maybe....maybeeee...NOT!  LOL  Just having some fun with you!

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Re: Love
« Reply #426 on: 23/08/2006 22:11:10 »


I believe in love, for other people, yes a teenager I've had crushes on boys, but I have never been able to 'let go' and give myself 100%to anyone, maybe I don't know how to, or perhaps I'm just not capable, don't know, it just never happened.


Love you lots

Helena  xxx


 

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« Reply #427 on: 23/08/2006 22:37:48 »
I can agree with you there Helena!  It only happens temporarily for me...and I am just sick and tired of the "notion" why go through the motions...?  What is the purpose?  Maybe someone can explain it to me...it is great when you are in love and I would've appreciated these gifts Denny has showered on me..but I feel like he is trying to buy his way back in my heart and it is not romantic...the gesture is a different feeling, it has a cheapened feel..I don't care how expensive the gifts are...it is the heart that matters...uh, oh...I am going over the edge here...I must jump out of this post...LOL

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Re: Love
« Reply #428 on: 23/08/2006 23:13:15 »
Moonfire:

  You didn't dampen my spirits, rather you only further prove that Love is very real and here everyday, even in difficult times. You see that your relationship "failed" or Love wasn't there, maybe never existed, (exactly what you believe right now I am not sure). But this is a narrow perspective. Love actually won. The Love that won was the Love for yourself. Realization that a relationship won't work, for any reason, is a realization born out of Love. Making a decision FOR YOURSELF to do what is best FOR YOURSELF is motivated by pure Love FOR YOURSELF. You should not torment yourself about making a decision born out of Love, even when EVERYONE around you dissagrees.

 

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Re: Love
« Reply #429 on: 23/08/2006 23:25:28 »
As long as life is a hot sexy blonde bitch and then you die. I'm cool with it :-D

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Re: Love
« Reply #430 on: 23/08/2006 23:27:14 »
Otis, I am in love..hehe exactly my sentiments.

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« Reply #431 on: 23/08/2006 16:10:07 »
Love is a clue. Its a clue to the possibility of what we all have the potential to feel all the time about everyone and everything.
 The first "romantic" love is quite often the most intense experience of love each person has. It wasn't a delusion or illusion. It was untainted Love. It was Love experienced for what it is, experienced by who you are; a silent, witnessing soul.

 It was not clouded by the mind-- not clouded by guilt, fears, suspicions, anxiety, questions. Not judged by your mind, who has been hurt. That first Love was simply witnessed and experienced and not judged constantly by your mind: a mind soon clouded with pain and suffering.
 
 That love is hard to find twice; because we have months, years, even decades of fear and hurt built up, creating artificial prison walls that make it hard for us to let our Love out. And let Love in.

 Love is real. It comes from the only place that matters- Nowhere. The mystery of Love will never be revealed until it is finally revealed. Then, I think we'll see the reason for the mystery is so we continue the search until the Truth is revealed. From that perspective, I imagine we will see the mystery was never really a mystery, nor did it matter.  

 Let go of all judgement, all fears, all guilt, all jealousy, all envy, all thought... Simply let go of the addiction to thought itself- Then you will find what is left. What you were born with. What you are. Silence. And ultimately-Love.
 

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« Reply #432 on: 23/08/2006 16:10:07 »
Love is a clue. Its a clue to the possibility of what we all have the potential to feel all the time about everyone and everything.
 The first "romantic" love is quite often the most intense experience of love each person has. It wasn't a delusion or illusion. It was untainted Love. It was Love experienced for what it is, experienced by who you are; a silent, witnessing soul.

 It was not clouded by the mind-- not clouded by guilt, fears, suspicions, anxiety, questions. Not judged by your mind, who has been hurt. That first Love was simply witnessed and experienced and not judged constantly by your mind: a mind soon clouded with pain and suffering.
 
 That love is hard to find twice; because we have months, years, even decades of fear and hurt built up, creating artificial prison walls that make it hard for us to let our Love out. And let Love in.

 Love is real. It comes from the only place that matters- Nowhere. The mystery of Love will never be revealed until it is finally revealed. Then, I think we'll see the reason for the mystery is so we continue the search until the Truth is revealed. From that perspective, I imagine we will see the mystery was never really a mystery, nor did it matter.  

 Let go of all judgement, all fears, all guilt, all jealousy, all envy, all thought... Simply let go of the addiction to thought itself- Then you will find what is left. What you were born with. What you are. Silence. And ultimately-Love.
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #433 on: 23/08/2006 20:39:15 »
Love is what we make of it or not....blah!  LOL :-P

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Re: Love
« Reply #434 on: 23/08/2006 20:54:48 »



Nice thought though.


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Re: Love
« Reply #435 on: 23/08/2006 21:41:05 »
Oh, drats!  Just when I have a good 5 seconds to dampen the spirits...here comes pinky romance...lol  I should've known you could sense me over on this section...now where is Queenie Mod...I expect her 2 pence worth!  LOL

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« Reply #436 on: 23/08/2006 21:48:05 »
Here you go, just to make you romantic peeps feel much betta...Loving you, it's so easy to say I love you...LOL  Okay, Otis, I admit...it was a pretty good post...and a GREAT BIG WELCOME!!!  ;-)  Don't let me dampen your spirits...I just have an issue going on in my own life and used to love romance...right now..I am sick of seeing bears, flowers, bracelets, books, stationary, perfumes, around my house...I just broke up with someone a few months ago and they refuse to let go...so romance these peeps away..I will try to do my best to behave and then maybe....maybe....maybeeee...NOT!  LOL  Just having some fun with you!

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Re: Love
« Reply #437 on: 23/08/2006 22:11:10 »


I believe in love, for other people, yes a teenager I've had crushes on boys, but I have never been able to 'let go' and give myself 100%to anyone, maybe I don't know how to, or perhaps I'm just not capable, don't know, it just never happened.


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Helena  xxx


 

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Re: Love
« Reply #438 on: 23/08/2006 22:37:48 »
I can agree with you there Helena!  It only happens temporarily for me...and I am just sick and tired of the "notion" why go through the motions...?  What is the purpose?  Maybe someone can explain it to me...it is great when you are in love and I would've appreciated these gifts Denny has showered on me..but I feel like he is trying to buy his way back in my heart and it is not romantic...the gesture is a different feeling, it has a cheapened feel..I don't care how expensive the gifts are...it is the heart that matters...uh, oh...I am going over the edge here...I must jump out of this post...LOL

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Re: Love
« Reply #439 on: 23/08/2006 23:13:15 »
Moonfire:

  You didn't dampen my spirits, rather you only further prove that Love is very real and here everyday, even in difficult times. You see that your relationship "failed" or Love wasn't there, maybe never existed, (exactly what you believe right now I am not sure). But this is a narrow perspective. Love actually won. The Love that won was the Love for yourself. Realization that a relationship won't work, for any reason, is a realization born out of Love. Making a decision FOR YOURSELF to do what is best FOR YOURSELF is motivated by pure Love FOR YOURSELF. You should not torment yourself about making a decision born out of Love, even when EVERYONE around you dissagrees.

 

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Re: Love
« Reply #440 on: 23/08/2006 23:25:28 »
As long as life is a hot sexy blonde bitch and then you die. I'm cool with it :-D

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Re: Love
« Reply #441 on: 23/08/2006 23:27:14 »
Otis, I am in love..hehe exactly my sentiments.

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« Reply #442 on: 23/08/2006 16:10:07 »
Love is a clue. Its a clue to the possibility of what we all have the potential to feel all the time about everyone and everything.
 The first "romantic" love is quite often the most intense experience of love each person has. It wasn't a delusion or illusion. It was untainted Love. It was Love experienced for what it is, experienced by who you are; a silent, witnessing soul.

 It was not clouded by the mind-- not clouded by guilt, fears, suspicions, anxiety, questions. Not judged by your mind, who has been hurt. That first Love was simply witnessed and experienced and not judged constantly by your mind: a mind soon clouded with pain and suffering.
 
 That love is hard to find twice; because we have months, years, even decades of fear and hurt built up, creating artificial prison walls that make it hard for us to let our Love out. And let Love in.

 Love is real. It comes from the only place that matters- Nowhere. The mystery of Love will never be revealed until it is finally revealed. Then, I think we'll see the reason for the mystery is so we continue the search until the Truth is revealed. From that perspective, I imagine we will see the mystery was never really a mystery, nor did it matter.  

 Let go of all judgement, all fears, all guilt, all jealousy, all envy, all thought... Simply let go of the addiction to thought itself- Then you will find what is left. What you were born with. What you are. Silence. And ultimately-Love.
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #443 on: 23/08/2006 20:39:15 »
Love is what we make of it or not....blah!  LOL :-P

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Re: Love
« Reply #444 on: 23/08/2006 20:54:48 »



Nice thought though.


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Helena  xxx


 

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Re: Love
« Reply #445 on: 23/08/2006 21:41:05 »
Oh, drats!  Just when I have a good 5 seconds to dampen the spirits...here comes pinky romance...lol  I should've known you could sense me over on this section...now where is Queenie Mod...I expect her 2 pence worth!  LOL

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Re: Love
« Reply #446 on: 23/08/2006 21:48:05 »
Here you go, just to make you romantic peeps feel much betta...Loving you, it's so easy to say I love you...LOL  Okay, Otis, I admit...it was a pretty good post...and a GREAT BIG WELCOME!!!  ;-)  Don't let me dampen your spirits...I just have an issue going on in my own life and used to love romance...right now..I am sick of seeing bears, flowers, bracelets, books, stationary, perfumes, around my house...I just broke up with someone a few months ago and they refuse to let go...so romance these peeps away..I will try to do my best to behave and then maybe....maybe....maybeeee...NOT!  LOL  Just having some fun with you!

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Re: Love
« Reply #447 on: 23/08/2006 22:11:10 »


I believe in love, for other people, yes a teenager I've had crushes on boys, but I have never been able to 'let go' and give myself 100%to anyone, maybe I don't know how to, or perhaps I'm just not capable, don't know, it just never happened.


Love you lots

Helena  xxx


 

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Re: Love
« Reply #448 on: 23/08/2006 22:37:48 »
I can agree with you there Helena!  It only happens temporarily for me...and I am just sick and tired of the "notion" why go through the motions...?  What is the purpose?  Maybe someone can explain it to me...it is great when you are in love and I would've appreciated these gifts Denny has showered on me..but I feel like he is trying to buy his way back in my heart and it is not romantic...the gesture is a different feeling, it has a cheapened feel..I don't care how expensive the gifts are...it is the heart that matters...uh, oh...I am going over the edge here...I must jump out of this post...LOL

"Lo" Loretta
 

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Re: Love
« Reply #449 on: 23/08/2006 23:13:15 »
Moonfire:

  You didn't dampen my spirits, rather you only further prove that Love is very real and here everyday, even in difficult times. You see that your relationship "failed" or Love wasn't there, maybe never existed, (exactly what you believe right now I am not sure). But this is a narrow perspective. Love actually won. The Love that won was the Love for yourself. Realization that a relationship won't work, for any reason, is a realization born out of Love. Making a decision FOR YOURSELF to do what is best FOR YOURSELF is motivated by pure Love FOR YOURSELF. You should not torment yourself about making a decision born out of Love, even when EVERYONE around you dissagrees.

 

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