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Does all people have a good friend ?

Through out my life I never had a good friend. I just used to consider my friend as my pet dogs but now they are gone. I am Happy with my family. but still I feel I am missing something in life I don't even know How true friendship feels like ?
Well I always been friendly to every one. still situations around me making me lonely.  [:-[] [V]

I don't know why... now I feel loneliness is really good. It gives me lots of Ideas to me related to my subject like intellectual mind.(plz read my bio to know more about me and my character.)

Am I really missing something ?

Now I feel like books, Physics,nature,math and whole science as my true friend !

Well am I feeling correctly ?
My thoughts are good or bad in a Human society ?

Does true friends really exist for every one ?
The only things that makes me lonely
- place where I live
- having tooo much of good habits
- following morels .. what our Great personalities say!
- Not lying
- A unique Mind !!
- Not watching sports / Movies (except sci-fi)
- Being Nerd
- Most of my classmates are Jealous of me. Always try to give trouble to me ( but it's fun)
and soo many things
- Always thinking related to science stuff


What will happen to me If I live lonely life ?
Does it effects to my mind ?

what ever you might say I feel good being lonely ... but "I want to drink life to lees"  
I really have lot of desire to gain knowledge ... to understand nature !!  
« Last Edit: 29/07/2009 11:22:20 by ScientificBoysClub »


 

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You are not alone, in that, many people feel the way you do. Intellectuals are scattered far and wide so there tends to be three nerds in every big secondary school. You may be a high functioning aspergers. My son is and often feels he is bullied and has no friends. The trick is to find the other nerds in your locality. The internet is good for that.
I don't have very many friends that are my age. This is because I was brought up in a family that was much older than me so older people appeal to me. I had a predomitory male family so I prefer male friends which also make life difficult. Don't feel you are the first to feel this way. Try making friends with older people. You may be intellectually older than your actual years.
 

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You are not alone, in that, many people feel the way you do. Intellectuals are scattered far and wide so there tends to be three nerds in every big secondary school. You may be a high functioning aspergers. My son is and often feels he is bullied and has no friends. The trick is to find the other nerds in your locality. The internet is good for that.
I don't have very many friends that are my age. This is because I was brought up in a family that was much older than me so older people appeal to me. I had a predomitory male family so I prefer male friends which also make life difficult. Don't feel you are the first to feel this way. Try making friends with older people. You may be intellectually older than your actual years.
Well I know you are right.
But no one is like me. I am a true Unique of all.

Hey you are a chemist.so,I have a question for you !?
Can I become Physicist as well as Chemist or Alchemist while I am studying Physics ? 
 

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You are not alone, in that, many people feel the way you do. Intellectuals are scattered far and wide so there tends to be three nerds in every big secondary school. You may be a high functioning aspergers. My son is and often feels he is bullied and has no friends. The trick is to find the other nerds in your locality. The internet is good for that.
I don't have very many friends that are my age. This is because I was brought up in a family that was much older than me so older people appeal to me. I had a predomitory male family so I prefer male friends which also make life difficult. Don't feel you are the first to feel this way. Try making friends with older people. You may be intellectually older than your actual years.
I don't want any one ..
lonely is self dependent and it's cool .
Finding friends in Internet is not safe !! we should not trust any one.
« Last Edit: 30/07/2009 12:49:05 by ScientificBoysClub »
 

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You are not alone, in that, many people feel the way you do. Intellectuals are scattered far and wide so there tends to be three nerds in every big secondary school. You may be a high functioning aspergers. My son is and often feels he is bullied and has no friends. The trick is to find the other nerds in your locality. The internet is good for that.
I don't have very many friends that are my age. This is because I was brought up in a family that was much older than me so older people appeal to me. I had a predomitory male family so I prefer male friends which also make life difficult. Don't feel you are the first to feel this way. Try making friends with older people. You may be intellectually older than your actual years.
I don't want any one ..
lonely is self dependent and it's cool .
Finding friends in Internet is not safe !! we should not thrust any one.

Thrust or trust?
 

ScientificBoysClub

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You are not alone, in that, many people feel the way you do. Intellectuals are scattered far and wide so there tends to be three nerds in every big secondary school. You may be a high functioning aspergers. My son is and often feels he is bullied and has no friends. The trick is to find the other nerds in your locality. The internet is good for that.
I don't have very many friends that are my age. This is because I was brought up in a family that was much older than me so older people appeal to me. I had a predomitory male family so I prefer male friends which also make life difficult. Don't feel you are the first to feel this way. Try making friends with older people. You may be intellectually older than your actual years.
I don't want any one ..
lonely is self dependent and it's cool .
Finding friends in Internet is not safe !! we should not thrust any one.

Thrust or trust?
sorry its trust . I use lots of Physics terms .. lol
 

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Many people are there on that list Buddy!!!!
 

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Many people are there on that list Buddy!!!!
no only me.
 

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SBC, having read your 'friends' posts, which you have made under your various guises, I have come to the conclusion that you have the following problems:

1) Your friendship requirement is too intense for most people. You seem to seek their undivided attention. You will not get this, you must share friendship. Friends will have other friends with whom you may or may not also be friends or acquaintances.

2) You view friendship as a competition. Friends do not compete with each other for attention.

3) You view those you are acquainted with as a threat to your standing. Who is the most intellectual, successful and popular is of no consequence to friends.

4) You appear to require constant affirmation of friendship. This is unnecessary among friends. I have friends I have known for 50+ years. I would never dream of asking any of them to confirm that we are still friends, to do so would be an insult.

5) You seem to wish to recruit friends. This cannot be done. Friendship grows from normal intercourse.

6) You want others to be interested in you. You must show interest in others. Its a two way thing!

7) You are full of 'self pity' and seek the pity of others.


Apart from the above, you seem to be a very insular person, who appears to enjoy your insularity, which you perceive to have been cast upon you by others. It has not, it is your own doing.

You must decide who you are, what you are and who, what and where you want to be. Know yourself a little better and perhaps this will be a way by which others can know you.

Now this is not intended as derogatory or derisory, it is my observations, although I am not a psychologist, so I could be wrong.

To find friends, you must get out and meet people on equal terms. Only you can address your problems, you will not find solutions here.
 

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1) Your friendship requirement is too intense for most people. You seem to seek their undivided attention. You will not get this, you must share friendship. Friends will have other friends with whom you may or may not also be friends or acquaintances.

A) well, i don't know. I just gave up finding friends.
If you talk about intense, Yeah I need .. really need but I gave up.
You got good observation.

"As my observations are censured chances favoures only prepared mind"
- louis pasteur

but I am not prepared. i am unable to understand people.   

 

2) You view friendship as a competition. Friends do not compete with each other for attention.

A) yes, I might view like that.

sir, you tell me one thing. If everyone enjoy

-new year
-festivals
-weekends
-X mass days

all these days kill me cos I see people enjoy.
my classmates Ignore me cos I am Nerd.

I am getting stressed there days every time.

I don't enjoy like others do. cos I don't have friends.
I never attended

parties
marriages
Celebrations.
NOTHING !
 
When ever i see you guys in forum too have fun with each other.
it hurts me.
I can't even bare to see that you guys miss each others.

3) You view those you are acquainted with as a threat to your standing. Who is the most intellectual, successful and popular is of no consequence to friends.

Ans) What ?
I am not this LOL. I believe my self.
but yes popular I want to trough my hard work.


4) You appear to require constant affirmation of friendship. This is unnecessary among friends. I have friends I have known for 50+ years. I would never dream of asking any of them to confirm that we are still friends, to do so would be an insult.

A) knowing truth is GOOD ! OK ..

"half knowledge is very dangerous"

I always try to know the unknown.Nothing wrong in knowing !


5) You seem to wish to recruit friends. This cannot be done. Friendship grows from normal intercourse.

A) I want to but ... I NEVER had a friend in my life.
NOT EVEN ONE.


6) You want others to be interested in you. You must show interest in others. Its a two way thing!

A) they are intrested in time wastful things.

They talk about....
Blah....sports
Blah ...MOVIE stars
Blah....GAMES

I want NERDS where are they ?
You guys are nerds here but it's stupid online ..
can't meet any one???


7) You are full of 'self pity' and seek the pity of others.
A) well, I don't know but... Yeah I might want others to show me pity.
but it will not work for me..

It will work for you people who have friends LOL...

8)Apart from the above, you seem to be a very insular person, who appears to enjoy your insularity, which you perceive to have been cast upon you by others. It has not, it is your own doing.

A) yeah might be true but If you really meet me in real or have a talk ..
you would be knowing me ... like How cool I am..
Ask my parents about me ..
I am UNIQUE MIND !
UNIQUE IN ALL THE WAY...

9)You must decide who you are, what you are and who, what and where you want to be. Know yourself a little better and perhaps this will be a way by which others can know you.

A)I am intellectual person.
I am getting this kind of thoughts ever science I was a Kid.

EVEN TODAY I STILL DON"T KNOW WHO AM I ?

CAN YOU TELL WHO YOU REALLY ARE ?

10)Now this is not intended as derogatory or derisory, it is my observations, although I am not a psychologist, so I could be wrong.

A)No most of your observations are correct but not all.

MY CASE IS way UNIQUE than a normal person.
My thoughts never match with any one.

11)To find friends, you must get out and meet people on equal terms. Only you can address your problems, you will not find solutions here.

A) I DID ... I DID ...
it's really hell LOL
I met different kinds of poeple but no one is matching with my thoughts.
all use ugly bad words.

BAD LANGUAGES !! bad people .. even good people use bad words..


MAN why do you use COMPLEX english I am not from English speaking country.
I need to look at dictionary for most of your vocabulary.
« Last Edit: 24/11/2009 11:57:30 by ScientificBoyZClub »
 

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