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« Reply #75 on: 12/05/2007 03:16:53 »
No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good!  ;)

Sorry, I cannot really regard a woman (or anybody else) as just a bit of jewelry - but then, I don't go much for jewelry anyway.
 

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« Reply #76 on: 12/05/2007 03:19:19 »
sometimes you get hurt. but you never know if it's the right person unless you try, right?

You can lose a lot of good friends that way - women who feel safe with you because they believe you are not interested in them romantically.
 

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« Reply #77 on: 12/05/2007 03:19:30 »
oops i read that wrong paul. i thought you also said you didn't care about looks. lol... at least i can type today
 

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« Reply #78 on: 12/05/2007 03:21:12 »
i don't know. i was that girl once but after my friend brought it up we remained friends. he's actually one of my best friends now because he was honest with me.
 

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« Reply #79 on: 12/05/2007 03:22:48 »
then again i was honest right back. that's where people get all mixed up
 

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« Reply #80 on: 12/05/2007 03:22:49 »

This, to be honest, given what you said about food and visual appeal, does not surprise me at all.  You are clearly strongly affected by visual appeal.


Too a tee, to such an extent that last year i redecorated my lounge 5 times. Not that it was grotty, i just did not like it once it was finished.


But, to be fair, I find that the things that attract me to a woman when I first meet her will bore me by the time I get to know her - by then, I had better be able to find something more to hold my interest.


This is true, when looks are important.


I also sometimes am actually wary of girls who are too attractive - I often take the view that if they are that good looking they have never really had to work at a relationship, or at much else, because they will just have men falling over themselves to do everything for her.  That kind of woman really is someone I would rather stay away from.

There is a fine line there, i think those that are too attractive have more invested in themselves to realy need anyone else. There are also the most shallow, and ones you get bored with quicker.
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« Reply #81 on: 12/05/2007 03:24:00 »
LOL Ohhh I must be the girl for you George! LOL LOL.. Just teasing.. I have found this conversation quite interesting to say the least! LOL

That sounds like me George .. Always redoing everything till I have it the way I like it! LOL
 

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« Reply #82 on: 12/05/2007 03:24:30 »
although nobody should listen to me. i'm single too. lol
 

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« Reply #83 on: 12/05/2007 03:25:59 »
You have some very nice ideas and lovely qualities young lady!
 

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« Reply #84 on: 12/05/2007 03:26:52 »
and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!
 

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« Reply #85 on: 12/05/2007 03:28:25 »
thanks karen... now find a nice, attractive mid to late twenties or early thirties-ish guy and tell him that for me!
 

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« Reply #86 on: 12/05/2007 03:29:01 »
and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!

I truely detest decorating, but i just can't pick the right colours! So, i just start all over again.
 

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« Reply #87 on: 12/05/2007 03:30:50 »
remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol
 

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« Reply #88 on: 12/05/2007 03:31:55 »
ok i can do colors... i'm good with colors. i just can't find stuff! together we might get it right!
 

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« Reply #89 on: 12/05/2007 03:32:35 »
remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol
are you talking to me?.....guessed not, just hoping for a picture!
 

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« Reply #90 on: 12/05/2007 03:33:15 »
that sounded conceited. i'm not. but i just... well i know i'm attractive. lol. it's the other areas i have low self esteem in
 

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« Reply #91 on: 12/05/2007 03:34:16 »
i was talking to karen, but maybe i'll just post it on the pictures of ourselves thingy.
 

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« Reply #92 on: 12/05/2007 03:38:03 »
I would love to see your Pictures! LOL
 

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« Reply #93 on: 12/05/2007 04:56:51 »
i think you just have to follow your intuition when you are looking for someone. whether we know it or not, we all know what we want!

Maybe that is why I have remained single - I never trust my instincts - and the few occasions I have followed them, I found them seriously wanting in judgement.

Blame the beer....

but wouldn't standing out in a crowd be a personality thing?

No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good!  ;)

Sounds like you want a virgina that washes plates!
 
Paul: Yeah, that is what I want!

...lol

and as far as Danny Devito go's im sure he was in the 100 fit blokes list somewhere.... bet kdlynn likes him!

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« Reply #94 on: 12/05/2007 05:09:17 »
i really am going to sleep after this, but i don't even know who danny devito is
 

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« Reply #95 on: 12/05/2007 05:14:12 »
Night Kadie..Sleep well!
 

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« Reply #96 on: 12/05/2007 05:17:35 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!
 

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« Reply #97 on: 12/05/2007 06:56:18 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Jolly, what is going on with you and Kadie..? That seemd way inappropriate!
 

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« Reply #98 on: 12/05/2007 11:22:27 »
nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate
 

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« Reply #99 on: 12/05/2007 15:13:09 »
nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate

Then you are ok? I was worried. Thanks kadie..
 

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