I just read over what i wrote...if i could explain things as i see them in my mind things would be so much easier. Ive had to stop as its almost becoming if it hasnt gone beyond a new theory already.......
Its almost asthough a photon is more of a consequence than a particle like gravity is a consequence of mass. Im wondering if its possible not that i think it could be proved right now that when we see light were seeing the effect of something we cannot observe. Although it sounds ridiculus what makes us see light is on the otherside or behind our universe if that makes sense. If you imagined the universe as being on top of sheet of paper, something emits a photon at which point the underside of the paper then passes a signal to another point on the paper which pings a photon on the top side of the paper.
If you imagine we could see gravity as we see light the equivalent would be like not seeing the sun but feeling its gravity.