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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #25 on: 27/09/2006 16:21:25 »
I hear that Loretta and carolyn.. Hi Geaorge nice points..
Andy you do not shock me or worry me in any way... I think you are a bright young man .. and I'm sorry you have been through and are going through such an ordeal in your life.. You seem to think I don't think you can function in normal society.. Oh contraire, I think you can.. and you should be allowed to .. As should all people should be given the oportunity to grow from their mistakes and reestablish themselves into a society which in the perfect world would welcome them back.. It is sad that alot of people and you must be awre do not welcome those in your shoes back into society.. I am not one of those people and you do not shock me.. I love human beings and therefore Try to always find the good in everyone I meet.. So please don't worry about that but thanks for the answer to your age.. I see you are very young, I seen your picture earlier,  You remind me of my son and daughter.. He is 21 and she is turning 25  so that accounts for why I felt you were so young.. I could feel young vibes...LOL ! I wish you luck in your lifes Journey and hope that your future gets brighter and people treat you fairly and Kindly!!  We certainly don't begrudge you your opinion and I see you have  a strong one.. Seems that you were bothered by our opinion.. but they are after all opinions and if you go back and read my post.. You will see that I said, This is the best thing for me.... I cannot make this decision for anyone else and I feel you should do the same.. I had to let go of what others thought and then learn for myself what I could live with!! Your experience will guide you in the direction it dictates as long as you follow your heart and your conscience!

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #26 on: 28/09/2006 15:35:20 »
If someone, or a Country, kills for revenge or as a punishment, makes the same crime of murder of the murderer.
You cannot simply say: "but I'm right" or "The Country is right".
The killer could say the same, and he would be right, because everyone can have "right" human motivations.

Furthermore, even if in some cases it could be true that such an extreme punishment is a deterrent against crimes and, maybe, useful to change in better a person's behaviour, however this is not always true.

So, I'm against death penalty not because I'm compassionate, in general, with murderers (even if I could be in some cases), but because I'm not compassionate with who makes that sentence.
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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #27 on: 28/09/2006 16:09:47 »
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Originally posted by Andy28

Well i hope i don't offend you by telling you i have served 4 prison sentences and have made the national papers in 1998. I have been hooked on heroin and am an alcoholic.  All this at 28.  That does'nt mean that i can't now behave like a normal citizen and have an opinion that criminals should be adequately punished.  Forums need outspoken people otherwise they become stale.



Hi Andy - I certainly am not offended by you having served 4 prison terms.  You are very young to have gone through all that.  What's important is that you've learned from your past, both the failures and successes.  

We all have things from our past that we're not so proud of.  For instance, I bet most people would be surprised to know that I too have been charged with a felony.  I did not serve prison time fortunately, but I was arrested, and fingerprinted and all of that humiliating stuff that goes with it.  I'm currently under a deferred prosecution agreement for the next few years, so if I screw up, I could very well go to prison.  I didn't make the national news, but it might as well have been (I live in a tiny little town).  I was the lead story in the local news, papers and radio.   It was by far, one of the most trying times of my life.  The humiliation was almost unbearable for me.  I lost my business, and my family was subjected to the humiliation as well.  That's probably what was the hardest for me, knowing what my loved ones were having to deal with because of me.  I found out very quickly who my friends were.

Please don't take this as a criticism, it is certainly not meant that way.  I'm just very curious about this.  For me, going through all of this has given me more compassion.  I used to be very unsympathetic when it came to law breakers and was very much for the death penalty.  Now I guess I can see both sides.  What purpose would it serve for me to have spent time in prison?  I'm still "paying back my debt to society", so to speak.  It would've cost the tax payers a lot more money to send me to prison, my children would suffer and my husband quite possibly would've ended up on welfare.

I know my crime doesn't compare to murder, but I still have a very hard time, for lack of a better term, sitting in judgement of people.

Carolyn



This was my point earlier. First people say the death penalty is wrong and next comes 'what purpose would my imprisonment serve'. We have to have rules and we have to be punished when we break them. That is the purpose - punishment.
 

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #28 on: 28/09/2006 16:22:28 »
I think that sombody murders another, they should live in prison the number of years that person that was murdered had left in his/her live, to a minimum of 15.  If a person that was murdered at 50 and was projected to live till 80, the killer should be in prison for 30 years.

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« Reply #29 on: 28/09/2006 16:54:20 »
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Originally posted by Andy28

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Originally posted by Carolyn

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Originally posted by Andy28

Well i hope i don't offend you by telling you i have served 4 prison sentences and have made the national papers in 1998. I have been hooked on heroin and am an alcoholic.  All this at 28.  That does'nt mean that i can't now behave like a normal citizen and have an opinion that criminals should be adequately punished.  Forums need outspoken people otherwise they become stale.



Hi Andy - I certainly am not offended by you having served 4 prison terms.  You are very young to have gone through all that.  What's important is that you've learned from your past, both the failures and successes.  

We all have things from our past that we're not so proud of.  For instance, I bet most people would be surprised to know that I too have been charged with a felony.  I did not serve prison time fortunately, but I was arrested, and fingerprinted and all of that humiliating stuff that goes with it.  I'm currently under a deferred prosecution agreement for the next few years, so if I screw up, I could very well go to prison.  I didn't make the national news, but it might as well have been (I live in a tiny little town).  I was the lead story in the local news, papers and radio.   It was by far, one of the most trying times of my life.  The humiliation was almost unbearable for me.  I lost my business, and my family was subjected to the humiliation as well.  That's probably what was the hardest for me, knowing what my loved ones were having to deal with because of me.  I found out very quickly who my friends were.

Please don't take this as a criticism, it is certainly not meant that way.  I'm just very curious about this.  For me, going through all of this has given me more compassion.  I used to be very unsympathetic when it came to law breakers and was very much for the death penalty.  Now I guess I can see both sides.  What purpose would it serve for me to have spent time in prison?  I'm still "paying back my debt to society", so to speak.  It would've cost the tax payers a lot more money to send me to prison, my children would suffer and my husband quite possibly would've ended up on welfare.

I know my crime doesn't compare to murder, but I still have a very hard time, for lack of a better term, sitting in judgement of people.

Carolyn



This was my point earlier. First people say the death penalty is wrong and next comes 'what purpose would my imprisonment serve'. We have to have rules and we have to be punished when we break them. That is the purpose - punishment.



I did not say that I should not have been punished.
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What purpose would it serve for me to have spent time in prison? I'm still "paying back my debt to society", so to speak. It would've cost the tax payers a lot more money to send me to prison, my children would suffer and my husband quite possibly would've ended up on welfare.


I said what purpose would it have served for me to go to prison?  I was punished, quite severely, thank you very much.  I am still being punished, and will continue to be punished for another 2-3 years. The only people that suffered from my crime were my family and myself.

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #30 on: 28/09/2006 19:17:12 »
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I think that sombody murders another, they should live in prison the number of years that person that was murdered had left in his/her live, to a minimum of 15.  If a person that was murdered at 50 and was projected to live till 80, the killer should be in prison for 30 years.




Sorry, but does this mean you get less of a sentence for murdering a smoker than a non-smoker, less for murdering an obese person than a person who has supposedly an ideal body mass index, does killing a defencless 95 year old widow deserve only a minimum sentence (and if her expected life expectance was only 80 years at the time - do you get 15 years credit)?



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« Reply #31 on: 28/09/2006 19:59:29 »
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Originally posted by Carolyn

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Originally posted by Andy28

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Originally posted by Carolyn

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Originally posted by Andy28

Well i hope i don't offend you by telling you i have served 4 prison sentences and have made the national papers in 1998. I have been hooked on heroin and am an alcoholic.  All this at 28.  That does'nt mean that i can't now behave like a normal citizen and have an opinion that criminals should be adequately punished.  Forums need outspoken people otherwise they become stale.



Hi Andy - I certainly am not offended by you having served 4 prison terms.  You are very young to have gone through all that.  What's important is that you've learned from your past, both the failures and successes.  

We all have things from our past that we're not so proud of.  For instance, I bet most people would be surprised to know that I too have been charged with a felony.  I did not serve prison time fortunately, but I was arrested, and fingerprinted and all of that humiliating stuff that goes with it.  I'm currently under a deferred prosecution agreement for the next few years, so if I screw up, I could very well go to prison.  I didn't make the national news, but it might as well have been (I live in a tiny little town).  I was the lead story in the local news, papers and radio.   It was by far, one of the most trying times of my life.  The humiliation was almost unbearable for me.  I lost my business, and my family was subjected to the humiliation as well.  That's probably what was the hardest for me, knowing what my loved ones were having to deal with because of me.  I found out very quickly who my friends were.

Please don't take this as a criticism, it is certainly not meant that way.  I'm just very curious about this.  For me, going through all of this has given me more compassion.  I used to be very unsympathetic when it came to law breakers and was very much for the death penalty.  Now I guess I can see both sides.  What purpose would it serve for me to have spent time in prison?  I'm still "paying back my debt to society", so to speak.  It would've cost the tax payers a lot more money to send me to prison, my children would suffer and my husband quite possibly would've ended up on welfare.

I know my crime doesn't compare to murder, but I still have a very hard time, for lack of a better term, sitting in judgement of people.

Carolyn



This was my point earlier. First people say the death penalty is wrong and next comes 'what purpose would my imprisonment serve'. We have to have rules and we have to be punished when we break them. That is the purpose - punishment.



I did not say that I should not have been punished.
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What purpose would it serve for me to have spent time in prison? I'm still "paying back my debt to society", so to speak. It would've cost the tax payers a lot more money to send me to prison, my children would suffer and my husband quite possibly would've ended up on welfare.


I said what purpose would it have served for me to go to prison?  I was punished, quite severely, thank you very much.  I am still being punished, and will continue to be punished for another 2-3 years. The only people that suffered from my crime were my family and myself.

Carolyn



I'm not saying that in your particular case that you should have been banged up. Seeing as you were'nt it must have been a misdemeanor as your country will send you to jail for almost anything. I do think the USA goes over the top when it comes to length of sentence for other things other than murder. I heard one guy got 7 years for drink driving and another got life for nicking pizza (Under the 3 strikes and you're out law)!
 

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #32 on: 28/09/2006 21:32:09 »
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I'm not saying that in your particular case that you should have been banged up. Seeing as you were'nt it must have been a misdemeanor as your country will send you to jail for almost anything. I do think the USA goes over the top when it comes to length of sentence for other things other than murder. I heard one guy got 7 years for drink driving and another got life for nicking pizza (Under the 3 strikes and you're out law)!



No misdemeanor.  Two felonies and was facing up to 5 years in prison, and $5,000.00 in fines.

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« Reply #33 on: 29/09/2006 01:13:10 »
I'm not really clued up on the American justice thing. What does felony mean? I take it it means you are in the sh*t?
 

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« Reply #34 on: 29/09/2006 02:25:56 »
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I'm not really clued up on the American justice thing. What does felony mean? I take it it means you are in the sh*t?



LOL.  Yep, that's pretty much what it means.  A felony is a crime of a 'grave' or serious nature, punishable by more than one year in prison.  A misdemeanor is a crime that is less serious and usually punishable by less than one jear in jail, and by a fine of generally not to exceed $2,500.00.  

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« Reply #35 on: 29/09/2006 03:03:07 »
Although one thing we have to clarify, that Carolyn's crime was not of a violent nature, and she never actually posed a real threat to the average citizen (it is what some people would classify as a 'victimless crime').



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« Reply #36 on: 29/09/2006 03:10:59 »
Good grief, I forgot to say that didn't I.  I can't believe I left that out, it was an important fact.  Thank you for looking out for me George - again.

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« Reply #37 on: 29/09/2006 03:31:00 »
What was the crime Carolyn? Sorry if it's too personal but i am nosey. Not only that but i very much doubt it will be anything that i would be horrified by. You seem like you just made a mistake, thats all.
 

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« Reply #38 on: 29/09/2006 03:58:08 »
No, it's not too personal.  I'm very nosey myself. The exact charges were failure to file tax returns, and failure to produce business records for inspection as required by law.  My opinion is that my actual crime was ignorance.  I started my business with a lousy accountant that disappeared and I didn't hire another one.  I didn't know anything about the restaurant business when I opened it.  I spent all of my time learning how to operate and keep a restaurant running, but didn't take the time to learn the accounting end of it.  I buried my head in the sand and hoped all the problems would just go away. I didn't make just one mistake, I made a whole series of them.  But hindsight is 20/20.

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« Reply #39 on: 29/09/2006 05:38:11 »
Lol. They were out of order taking you to court over that. I thought you were gonna say you were done with armed robbery or something. Anyway, the main thing is you did'nt go down eh?
 

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« Reply #40 on: 29/09/2006 06:10:45 »
Boy Carolyn I have so been there..Back Taxes Fortunantly I was able to fix it.. before it proceded to that , but I burried my head to, and it did not help!! Ours was a new business also.. what a scarey mess... Never again!!

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« Reply #41 on: 29/09/2006 07:01:44 »
Darn....Bad A--Betty...if it were armed robbery....it would've been so juicy for your rep here...hehe

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« Reply #42 on: 29/09/2006 07:16:52 »
Armed Robery is the other way around when your talking business taxes etc.. The business man has to pay out of the nose in tons of different taxes!

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« Reply #43 on: 29/09/2006 09:00:46 »
I know, I have been there and done that..no fun and reputable accountants...the percentages are no fun when looking for one that does not charge an arm and a leg

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« Reply #44 on: 29/09/2006 12:10:09 »
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Lol. They were out of order taking you to court over that. I thought you were gonna say you were done with armed robbery or something.



The nature of the law is that before it protects the citizen, it protects the government, and that means protecting the government's source of revenue, and protecting the government's authority.

They took her to court first and foremost to protect their authority.



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« Reply #45 on: 29/09/2006 13:09:48 »
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Lol. They were out of order taking you to court over that. I thought you were gonna say you were done with armed robbery or something.



The nature of the law is that before it protects the citizen, it protects the government, and that means protecting the government's source of revenue, and protecting the government's authority.

They took her to court first and foremost to protect their authority.



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Right you are George.  They filed charges and were extremely hard on me.  My lawyer, as well as a few reputable accountants, said the State was making an example of me to show the rest of the business community that they better cooperate.  After they filed charges and the community saw what I went through, the State went after several businesses in the area.  To the best of my knowledge, they all cooperated and payed out their noses.

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #46 on: 29/09/2006 13:58:40 »
So you became the "Martha S" in your community as they did the same thing to her....

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« Reply #47 on: 29/09/2006 14:24:01 »
Yes exactly.  Every where I went, people whispered and giggled.  I had been very active in my church, and was a Sunday school teacher for the teenagers.  Almost the entire church community turned against me.  It broke my heart.  You would've thought I  had burned their homes down or something equally bad.  Of course, now they're real sweet.  You know the type, sugar wouldn't melt in their mouths.

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« Reply #48 on: 29/09/2006 15:08:09 »
Hmmm, did the church do that too?  Oh, yeah...the lovely sugary type...I had something similar happen when I sent my son to Kansas one summer and my biological mother and him got into it...(he was my scientist and also, he was the principal person in the family(Just like him mom...oh brother!)He would verbalize something if he didn't think it was right?  So she hit my son on the head with a shoe! He threw it back at her and it struck her cheek(can't blame him, as she had cursed him out on top of hitting him on the head for that one...)She called the police on him..he was stuck in the system for 2yrs...I had to hire an attorney and fight her legally as she tried to get him taken from me and the state of Kansas...You would not believe how they militantly took him from her house and I could not drive there quick enough (51/2hrs from here)to protect him.  He was locked in the system, we went to court the next day...they ordered him into an immediate Juvenile home...I was stunned...I hired an attorney quickly...my mother was going down for this one...she told the court I was hooked on drugs and an alcoholic mother!!!  I came back distraught of losing one of my sons and swore she would never have another one visit her again let alone see her once he was free!  They allowed her more rights than me...a parent with nothing taken away from her and they assumed it was true.  They did background checks on me, home studies, etc...and I was clean as a whistle...sanely sound(oh, boy...how did I pass that one?  LOL)Kids were stable...and then another big whammie...I was a single parent and could not provide a stablized male influence in their lives..they wanted to work with Texas about removing kids...uh, Texas told them to kiss their hind quarters after they did their investigation and home studies again...stating that their findings was I was a single parent without support from the father and reviewing my court documents from the divorce, agreed that the father should have no rights to them at all as he would definitely be detrimental in their lives as an influence.  Texas social worker stated she could not believe she was doing homestudies on us...she felt like it was a waste of time as I was providing a home(which I was buying)clothes, and food.  Also, the boys were busy with activities, school grades were honor roll for each of them...when Michael went there, he manipulated the system, he wouldn't go to school as they couldn't make him, it was against his rights, flunking grades, intolerable behaviour.  I was angry and took action and dared them to come up against my decision to be a distant parent...I went to Kansas once a month(all the visitation they would allow me)made daily calls to wake him up for school in the morning(as the state didn't know what to do??)"bribed him with a gameboy so he would go to school and pull up those stupid grades he was getting(he did not get in trouble for as they advised him of his rights there)called him after I would get off work to make sure he attended school and was doing his work..etc..He did and passed...when I rewarded him with gameboy...the state became angry...They said it was bribery...I accused them of trying to keep my son from me (which the courts agreed)and trying to turn him into a real juvenile...they put him on ridlin and some other ridiculous medicine...I had to fire my attorney as he was not doing anything he was supposed to and working in their hands...I was advised by the judge this was not a wise move and I advised the judge back after reviewing the amount of money I paid and the representation I received I had a 50-50 chance...I had to take parenting classes and they released me after 3 classes as I took all the written tests and passed...geez.  Judge thought it was impressive...I told her I thought it was ridiculous as no one tested me before I had those kids...she laughed.  Then December 10, 2002 arrived the day Michael was supposed to be released back to me after my victory...mother was sad as she knew she would never see my kids again while she was alive.  I faced her in court and told her in front of the judge and her representative and that she made a big mistake with me as she did my father...but my kids will always be the closest thing to me....she should've decided on having a relationship with me instead of trying to have my kids taken from me.  As she found out, I was not a drug addict nor an alcoholic but through the findings of the court, home studies, and in person, I was more of a parent than she was ever to me, to take this to heart and try to forgive my father who has passed on and stop hating herself and learn to live again.  The Judge applauded on my final statement.  I addressed the state of Kansas and their representation to let them know I wanted to make sure they were aware of my written orders of release of my wonderful son they promised to never let me have him again(which the lady who said that was fired for that horrible statement)That they better pray for the 7yrs I have to think about a recourse in action to take against them they better be quiet and never militantly take any of my sons whenever I am in the state of Kansas and also comply to the courts orders as I am watching them carefully and have an attorney in Texas who would be glad to take them to court...I advised them my son would be in a doctor's office first thing to be re-evaluated for all the diagnosis they gave him and the medicine better not affect him as he will can take them to court later when he is old enough.  The state rested their case and wished me luck and no more than that as a statement...which I was documented still...my records were better than theirs...it was not a pretty 2 years...I lost time with my son...but what a joyful reunion when they had to bring him back 100 miles away from my home...I would like to say this was the end of Kansas issues...but it was not...I had to deal with them infringing on my rights as a parent as they took valuable documents from me and lost them...but I did get them returned after another court battle (birth certificate and shot records)School here did not want Michael in school without them...I had to use our constitution to keep him in school...Yes, Carolyn, the school knew me by name everytime I walked in it...I don't think they cared for me much...hehe

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Re: For or against the death penalty?
« Reply #49 on: 29/09/2006 16:23:36 »
Man Loretta, I am so glad you are my friend... you stood up and fought for those children as I know you would as you have for me... You are a wonderful mother and I think you Deserve a star!!!!! I wish I could give you one.... Daniel.. Can you give the lady a star??? I don't know how to do the pics!!

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