[dianewalsh (OP)]

when possible For example, don’t try too hard or seem too demanding; instead, focus on making her feel comfortable and safe. Call 999 (UK) or911 (North America) for rapid service.  If you do go too far in trying to be country-club-like or hotel-like, your client may become uncomfortable or even angry. Remember that gentlemen often enjoy more active sexual activities than women; so make sure you are prepared for this by being flexible when scheduling service rendezvous!