I'm no expert, of course, but I thought you might like a female perspective?

I would agree that the size of the woman matters more than the man.  I have been told by sexual partners and by health professionals (during routine smear tests) that my vaginal canal is small/tight and I have to say that too large a penis is a bit of an uncomfortable waste.

My most recent partner isn't the largest I've known (but is the most beautiful), yet is the first to bring me to vaginal orgasm (I didn't even realise that there were different types of orgasm before, I thought anything other than clitoril orgasm was a myth).  After all these years, this is what I've been missing!

So guys, if you are ever given cause to worry about being "too small" by a nasty, perhaps vengeful, woman, I'd advise you to complain that it is her who it too big, rather than that you are too small.

Smaller really is better (if you're a "small" girl like me).  Besides, the elusive 'G' spot is only about a couple of inches in (but check this out), so even the guys with the small dicks shouldn't fully enter for a while :}

Hope this helps?