[grumpy old mare]

I think three minutes is enough...the girly should be thankful, compliant and then make tea !

Neil - thank you for making me laugh out loud this morning!!   []


Answer to original question: It all depends sooo much on the individuals concerned that there is no answer! Three minutes can be enough (as in "brilliant time had by both") - and 1 hour can be way to much for one ... or again brilliant for both - whatever. There is NO rule in Sex except that one should never do anything the other one doesn't want/agree to do!

And, due to my job (and no, my job isn't the oldest one in the world, sorry to disappoint): Don't ever forget Chlamydia and other loverly STI's - if in any doubt, use a condom! (might help against premature ejaculation, too!!)

[Madidus_Scientia]

The first time you have sex you will not be good at it, full stop. You can't be a sex hero first time. You'll be so exited about this new experience that it probably won't last very long at all. Hopefully you'll be with someone who will understand and won't make you embarrassed about it, but after a while you'll get alot better at it.

That said i think you can practice to an extent by trying to go to the limit just before orgasm while masturbating, then holding off for a moment, then repeating.

[Simulated (OP)]

I see. So like positions have anything to do with it at all either?

[neilep]

I see. So like positions have anything to do with it at all either?

Positions ?......well....changes of positions are for change !....

fact is...as mentioned above it all depends on the couple in question......it can be 5 minutes or 5 hours !.......positions can be all about adding variety and spice.......

To put in another way.........sex is not all about reaching an orgasm as quickly as possible.......sex is an activity about giving and receiving pleasure. The way you accomplish this is by experimentation.

Foreplay can last a minute or 30 minutes....or an hour.....etc etc..there are no rules and regulations here.........the only limitations are the time you have and your own imaginations.

Remember, it's not about reaching climax/orgasm/ejaculation.....that may be the eventual goal..and even then not the end of it.................it's about enjoying the journey on your way there....main thing is....be safe and have fun !!

Use a Condom !!

[Karen W.]

I see. So like positions have anything to do with it at all either?

Positions ?......well....changes of positions are for change !....

fact is...as mentioned above it all depends on the couple in question......it can be 5 minutes or 5 hours !.......positions can be all about adding variety and spice.......

To put in another way.........sex is not all about reaching an orgasm as quickly as possible.......sex is an activity about giving and receiving pleasure. The way you accomplish this is by experimentation.

Foreplay can last a minute or 30 minutes....or an hour.....etc etc..there are no rules and regulations here.........the only limitations are the time you have and your own imaginations.

Remember, it's not about reaching climax/orgasm/ejaculation.....that may be the eventual goal..and even then not the end of it.................it's about enjoying the journey on your way there....main thing is....be safe and have fun !!

Use a Condom !!

Well Look who the cat drug in!!! LOL..hee hee hee!


Ryan this here advice was good advice....AS well the others, Spot on!!! YAYYYYYYYY!

[Simulated (OP)]

Well don't worry. No matta how much I want it, I'm gonna be a good boyy and not do it until I am old enough..ha

[neilep]

Well don't worry. No matta how much I want it, I'm gonna be a good boyy and not do it until I am old enough..ha

ewe know ?...that makes ewe one of the wisest people I know !

[TheHerbaholic]

Why when you're drunk does it last so long? That's something I wasn't taught in sex education lol

[Karen W.]

Well don't worry. No matta how much I want it, I'm gonna be a good boyy and not do it until I am old enough..ha

I am not worried.Good for you!

[Karen W.]

Well don't worry. No matta how much I want it, I'm gonna be a good boyy and not do it until I am old enough..ha

Ditto..

ewe know ?...that makes ewe one of the wisest people I know !

[Karen W.]

Why when you're drunk does it last so long? That's something I wasn't taught in sex education lol

My husband had the opposite problem! Maybe it is different for some! So maybe thats why it is not taught... everyone reacts differently to different circumstances???

[Madidus_Scientia]

When you're drunk your senses are numbed, you can't feel it as much. Also if the male is too drunk its hard to get it up in the first place