Why are heterosexual men attracted to the vagina?

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« Reply #1 on: 16/02/2009 19:47:27 »
It may not neccessarily be specically the vagina, maybe just sex in general. The stronger the urge for sex, the more likely one is to reproduce. The more offspring one has, the more likely those genes will be passed on.

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« Reply #2 on: 16/02/2009 22:40:57 »
Why are men, that like sex with women, attracted to the vagina! I hate to state the bleeding obvious...

Anyway, I doubt they all are. The are attracted to the female and the vagina happens to be a sexual organ.

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« Reply #3 on: 16/02/2009 23:47:28 »
Strictly as a thought experiment - and I don't mean out of curiosity - would you show an interest in a woman that you knew did not have one?
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« Reply #4 on: 17/02/2009 01:23:26 »
You mean a transsexual? 

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« Reply #5 on: 17/02/2009 02:33:48 »
Why are heterosexual men soo attracted to the vagina?
Because they don't have one themselves... DUH!

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« Reply #6 on: 17/02/2009 07:12:53 »
This is not exactly an interest which is confined to humans. There are many species where the male shows an interest in the vagina, a good sniff can tell the male if the female is close to oestrous and therefore worth keeping around in order to mate when the time is right.
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« Reply #7 on: 17/02/2009 07:27:29 »
What about homosexual animals?

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« Reply #8 on: 17/02/2009 08:22:03 »
Why are heterosexual men soo attracted to the vagina?
My opinion is that there are at least these two factors: a man instictively tries to "go through the world" with his personality and hunger for "conquear", "adventure" and "self affirmation"; a sort of "conquear of the castle" and the power of his "sword" in the middle ages; the second is the need to be inside the affection and tenderness of his mother.

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« Reply #9 on: 17/02/2009 08:58:10 »
Because if they are not(attracted) then they are probably called homosexual. [;)]

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« Reply #10 on: 17/02/2009 10:04:38 »
Strictly as a thought experiment - and I don't mean out of curiosity - would you show an interest in a woman that you knew did not have one?

Who? Me?

If so then the answer would be, yes.

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« Reply #11 on: 17/02/2009 14:51:07 »
Strictly as a thought experiment - and I don't mean out of curiosity - would you show an interest in a woman that you knew did not have one?
It's not a thought experiment: most of them doesn't give it to you, so it's the same as if they hadn't   [:)]

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« Reply #12 on: 17/02/2009 19:38:20 »
Why are heterosexual men soo attracted to the vagina?
My opinion is that there are at least these two factors: a man instictively tries to "go through the world" with his personality and hunger for "conquear", "adventure" and "self affirmation"; a sort of "conquear of the castle" and the power of his "sword" in the middle ages; the second is the need to be inside the affection and tenderness of his mother.
Another possibility is that it's a remarkably well designed place for him to put his *****.
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« Reply #13 on: 17/02/2009 19:42:52 »
Why are heterosexual men soo attracted to the vagina?
My opinion is that there are at least these two factors: a man instictively tries to "go through the world" with his personality and hunger for "conquear", "adventure" and "self affirmation"; a sort of "conquear of the castle" and the power of his "sword" in the middle ages; the second is the need to be inside the affection and tenderness of his mother.
Another possibility is that it's a remarkably well designed place for him to put his *****.
Ah, yes, this is what I wanted to say!   [:)]

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« Reply #14 on: 17/02/2009 21:30:38 »
There's an interesting issue about homosexuality here. People get all steamed up about homosexuality being 'unnatural'. It's a perfect solution in many situations. In social groups where there is a (successful) dominant male there would be an immense amount of dissatisfaction amongst the remaining males. This makes for a lot of competition (rutting stags and all that) and involves a huge energy overhead for the whole of the male population. You still need a strong sex drive, even for those males who don't manage to mate - Big George may die tomorrow and he will need a successor PDQ. Homosexual activity can be a good way to  divert the randy males until an opportunity arises. Many species exhibit this behaviour - so it IS natural.
Humans are such complex creatures that it is clearly a very valid life style. If one accepts that the primary function of sex is reproduction and assumes that the sex drive must be one of the strongest instincts then
a. at the very simplest level, homosexual behaviour is an excellent way of resolving frustrated desire.
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b. on a much more sophisticated level, homosexual behaviour is a perfectly valid way of preserving the sexual urge and is in the general interests of the population. The alternative would be for males to say "no dice, so I'll watch the footie on TV". That characteristic would soon cause the species to die out. You really do have to second and third guess all human behaviour if you want to have a chance of understanding it.
As a heterosexual male, I can appreciate the wonders of the vagina but I can see how all the alternatives have their place in our evolution. "On the other hand...."

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« Reply #15 on: 17/02/2009 22:08:34 »
Calling yourself Sophie makes me wonder too. Nothing has been said about females that like a bit of vagina. How would you explain that?
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« Reply #16 on: 17/02/2009 22:28:03 »
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« Reply #17 on: 17/02/2009 22:56:25 »
No, I'm reading "naked without a hat" at the moment. It is much more entertaining.

You still haven't explained about women who like vagina.
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« Reply #18 on: 17/02/2009 23:05:38 »
No, I'm reading "naked without a hat" at the moment. It is much more entertaining.

Is that book kosher?

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« Reply #19 on: 17/02/2009 23:06:26 »
Have you read my profile?

Or looked at his picture?

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« Reply #20 on: 17/02/2009 23:11:04 »
He seems to be a small water craft and not a transexual.

No one has answered my question yet. Stop perverting this thread.
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« Reply #21 on: 17/02/2009 23:16:19 »
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« Reply #22 on: 17/02/2009 23:18:53 »
Hello Sailer [:I]
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« Reply #23 on: 17/02/2009 23:24:08 »
Hello Sailer [:I]
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OI, FOG off

The meanings of these homophones differ, but they are distinguishable only in writing or from context. A boat can be a good sailer because it sails well; but a good sailor is always “a person who is expert at sailing or helping to sail a boat” or, sometimes, “someone who never gets seasick.

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« Reply #24 on: 17/02/2009 23:27:16 »
There's an interesting issue about homosexuality here. People get all steamed up about homosexuality being 'unnatural'. It's a perfect solution in many situations. In social groups where there is a (successful) dominant male there would be an immense amount of dissatisfaction amongst the remaining males. This makes for a lot of competition (rutting stags and all that) and involves a huge energy overhead for the whole of the male population. You still need a strong sex drive, even for those males who don't manage to mate - Big George may die tomorrow and he will need a successor PDQ. Homosexual activity can be a good way to  divert the randy males until an opportunity arises. Many species exhibit this behaviour - so it IS natural.
Humans are such complex creatures that it is clearly a very valid life style. If one accepts that the primary function of sex is reproduction and assumes that the sex drive must be one of the strongest instincts then
a. at the very simplest level, homosexual behaviour is an excellent way of resolving frustrated desire.
and
b. on a much more sophisticated level, homosexual behaviour is a perfectly valid way of preserving the sexual urge and is in the general interests of the population. The alternative would be for males to say "no dice, so I'll watch the footie on TV". That characteristic would soon cause the species to die out. You really do have to second and third guess all human behaviour if you want to have a chance of understanding it.
As a heterosexual male, I can appreciate the wonders of the vagina but I can see how all the alternatives have their place in our evolution. "On the other hand...."
Ignoring Paul, I'm still interested in your views of lesbianism based on these comments about homosexuality. I am very interested in this topic as I am bisexual and would like to know why.
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« Reply #25 on: 18/02/2009 03:26:46 »
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« Reply #26 on: 18/02/2009 06:49:29 »
Ignoring Paul, I'm still interested in your views of lesbianism based on these comments about homosexuality. I am very interested in this topic as I am bisexual and would like to know why.

I too would like to know the answer to this.
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« Reply #27 on: 18/02/2009 07:25:29 »
Ignoring Paul, I'm still interested in your views of lesbianism based on these comments about homosexuality. I am very interested in this topic as I am bisexual and would like to know why.

I too would like to know the answer to this.

You are the way you are because if you weren't you would be different. [;)]
As your mind controls your body what your mind finds attractive is what you will be attracted to.
Food
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Simple or as complicated as that.

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« Reply #28 on: 18/02/2009 09:08:52 »
I don't think there can be an explanation as to any individual's sexual tendency. For some, lesbianism could be as a result of distrust, of men through personal experience, or the experience of someone close to you.

It could be the fact that many men fail to show their full & true emotions, on the premise that such a show of feelings might be interpreted as a weakness. A woman might feel that only another woman can show their love to the full, without fear or preconceptions.

It could be a dislike, or even revulsion of the male genitalia. It could be the rough and even sometimes violent nature of men during the act of intercourse. There is also the selfishness of some men, who either don't know how to, or don't care whether the woman is brought to climax.

Any one, or combination, of these and other reasons could lead a woman toward lesbian tendencies. Doubtless a similar set of opposing reasons could explain homosexuality in men.

As for bisexuals, I can only imagine that one, or a number of, these reasons exist in the individual's perception of the opposite sex, but that it, or they, do not fully override the need, or desire, for relationships with the opposite sex.

Of course all the above could be just a load of old shoe menders.

I am strictly heterosexual........ When I get the chance!!!!!

I could not be bisexual, I don't think I could afford to buy sex!!!
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« Reply #29 on: 18/02/2009 09:11:15 »
EEeee gads, what sort of Google ads are we going to get now!!!
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« Reply #30 on: 18/02/2009 09:22:32 »
Not too bad actually [:)]

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« Reply #31 on: 18/02/2009 11:01:39 »
My comments on homosexuality are just pointing out that it is 'perfectly natural', it happens throughout Nature and it seems to me that there are plenty of evolutionary advantageous reasons for it. 
Humans have so much more complicated systems than other animals we see and there is a whole extra layer of psychology at work. The way we think and the way societies work are so involved and there are loops within loops and reasons within reasons when we come to any decision about what we want to do.
The last thing that's needed is for yet another layer involving guilt to be introduced by ignorant statements against homosexuality.
Of course, that doesn't mean that 'anything goes', with regard to sexual behaviour (or in any other facet of life). Even more self control and responsibility is needed where sex is concerned because it is such a strong urge, leading to many bad decisions and generally harmful actions.

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« Reply #32 on: 18/02/2009 15:36:06 »
I am very interested in this topic as I am bisexual and would like to know why.
Maybe it's because if you finish up your male friends, you still have female ones or the other way around!  [;)]

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« Reply #33 on: 18/02/2009 17:16:10 »
As a sheepy I am of course totally bi....and gay...and hetro and all between.

personally, it's interesting for me to think about why I luff poo-narni when I myself am the subject of so much attention !

As has been mentioned ...I suppose it's not especially the beef-curtains that one is attracted to but it's the body they're attached to....although, it IS very nice !!

LOL...I think I need to go away and take off my silly hat and come back when I can be more serious before I convey my deepest insights into the nature of Vagina va-va-voom !!!






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« Reply #34 on: 18/02/2009 22:18:20 »
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« Reply #35 on: 18/02/2009 22:24:18 »
How dare you ignore me!

Sorry to do this, but getting back to the original question...Do any of the heterosexual males here (and MIL) actually think the vagina is attractive to look at? Surely not! If it was supposed to be a 'thing of beauty' or a sight 'to behold' then the 'designer' got it totally wrong.

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« Reply #36 on: 18/02/2009 22:55:23 »
Sorry to do this, but getting back to the original question...Do any of the heterosexual males here (and MIL) actually think the vagina is attractive to look at? Surely not! If it was supposed to be a 'thing of beauty' or a sight 'to behold' then the 'designer' got it totally wrong.

I assume there is a range of responses in regard to the aesthetics of female genitals  from "ugly" to "absolutely beautiful" with variations depending on the individual female. The same probably needs to be said for the response of women in regard to the aesthetics of male genitals.

Isn't the perception of beauty also (if not solely) connected to experiences? If you like what you can do with it and what it does to you you may find it more beautiful.
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« Reply #37 on: 18/02/2009 23:14:42 »
I think genitals only like nice when they are aroused so arousing them gives you the prize. I think aroused willies look nice and aroused vaginas feel nice. I'll stop there before I start arousing forum members members.
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« Reply #38 on: 19/02/2009 01:11:22 »
Neilep
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Only when I need to take a leak !!
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« Reply #39 on: 19/02/2009 01:12:40 »
How dare you ignore me!

Sorry to do this, but getting back to the original question...Do any of the heterosexual males here (and MIL) actually think the vagina is attractive to look at? Surely not! If it was supposed to be a 'thing of beauty' or a sight 'to behold' then the 'designer' got it totally wrong.

I do love orchids !
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« Reply #40 on: 19/02/2009 10:18:59 »
To be honest, I don't think any of the hardware was designed with visual aesthetics in mind. Not many animals actually look at them. I think it's what they represent to the human beholder that counts. Genital cosmetics aren't a big industry, which rather proves my point - there's nothing to 'enhance'. I think that the best you can hope for in a penis would be, possibly, 'impressive' and, in a vagina, 'demure'. (Total stereotypes).

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« Reply #41 on: 20/02/2009 07:11:36 »
The human female vagina is a work of art.

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I think genitals only like nice when they are aroused so arousing them gives you the prize. I think aroused willies look nice and aroused vaginas feel nice. I'll stop there before I start arousing forum members members.
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« Reply #44 on: 02/01/2010 02:50:29 »
As a former colleague used to say,

"It's a terrible thing when you look into it."
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« Reply #45 on: 04/01/2010 15:21:54 »
Mr Chem has his facts sorted it seems to me. Homosexuality exist in all species and if men did have both organs? Well we joke about it and as a hetero I know what C6 ah, sorry, C4 meant there :)

But some are born that way, that is most often seen as a tragedy though, also forcing a general operation on those by most society's leaving them as men. A fact that can lead to suicide in some cases where the 'persona' of the person involved might be a female one. To be transgendered is a very hard situation for most people.

To be 'Bi' is not such an issue for girls as it is for men, at least it seems so to me? Two girls together inviting a male wouldn't pose a big problem for most of us, as long as we know them, or are drunk, or. . .

But two males together inviting a woman?

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I just want to add this, all such operations should wait on the person born deciding it. To me it seems very wrong to decide/force a persons gender without consulting him or her. Also i think love as a concept is 'universal' and the same for all genders or 'mixes of genders'. It's mostly us judging others by our own standards that makes the whole 'gender thing' such a mess. 

We are what we are, and that's that, no big deal.
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« Reply #46 on: 05/01/2010 01:01:09 »
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To be 'Bi' is not such an issue for girls as it is for men, at least it seems so to me? Two girls together inviting a male wouldn't pose a big problem for most of us, as long as we know them, or are drunk, or. . .

But two males together inviting a woman?

I agree. I think it's more fashionable for women to be bi nowadays, but men not so much. I've found it's more of a dichotomy with men - gay or straight - compared to both I've met relatively few bi men. It's a shame, it's such an unfair double standard. I think it's the result of living in patriarchy, though. When it comes to sex, men get the raw end of the deal - a myth that arises because of patriarchal attitudes. It is responsible for many injustices towards both men & women. For example, mothers are typically favoured over fathers when it comes to custody of children, & men are typically favoured over women when it comes to promotions & ambition.

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« Reply #47 on: 19/05/2011 17:01:14 »
i read where older women get more of a hormonal rush from mutual conversation than from a sexual orgasim. Lately it seems the elderly ladies are coming out more within a more liberal society?