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Voting closed: 09/07/2009 23:00:54
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So then, with regards to sex, and the sensual part of it, without mention of meaningfulness... what matters?Maximum length, or width? It changes after child rearing?Or it is a partner to partner size match, her 3-4 inches needs, his 5-6 inches, or her 4-5 inches needs 6-7 inches...?
Karen - three words for you "pelvic floor exercises". WRT to OP I have heard gems like "it's not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean" indicating style over size is ideal..but with all the different types of waves.. I'm thinking girth plays a big part for a female.
What are those links meant to tell us? 
I personally wish there had been other options to this poll. For me, at least, sex is more about the state of mind rather than the physical attributes involved in it's exercise. Sex, and the expression of one's desire for another, revolves around the participants mutual surrender, and the trust needed to expose themselves totally to another. I believe that sex is, in short, an expression of the human need to be accepted and loved. The reason why promiscuity is so rampant these days stems from the confusion about the roll of sex in the human relationship. Without the involvement of real respect and love, the particapants will achieve little satisfaction and find themselves seeking additional partners in an unending quest to fulfill this basic need. As a result; the failure we see in all kinds of relationships in and out of marriage.....................Ethos
that's not sex.. that's love. Different ball game. But there is an element of 'psychological pleasure' to the act of having sex.. but pleasure is different to 'attachment'.
I am afraid I tend to agree with you Ethos. Very well said!
True, but when people continue to separate the two, they find no real satisfaction. Sex without love becomes boring. And love without sex is an indication you've gotten too old...............Ethos
True, but when people continue to separate the two, they find no real satisfaction. Sex without love becomes boring. And love without sex is an indication you've gotten too old.
So we distinguish, love from lust?