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« Reply #100 on: 12/05/2007 15:16:16 »
Hmm.. I missed the action!!!! Was it bad?
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« Reply #101 on: 12/05/2007 15:41:47 »
Well it sure made me feel odd, for others.

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« Reply #102 on: 12/05/2007 15:44:03 »
Hi all. [;D]
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« Reply #103 on: 12/05/2007 15:45:55 »
For the most part attraction for me comes in different stages and areas not really on looks at all. Yes eyes are nice faces are all nice but build has nothing to do with it for me.. I want to know what comes from the heart and when I talk with someone if I do not feel that then I know that I could never be attracted to someone who did not firstly have a good heart!

Now I think it should all be done.. OK..

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« Reply #104 on: 12/05/2007 15:48:25 »
OK.. HONESTLY coming from moi!!!

I like..

BIG B**bs.
Gorgeous face.
Massive bum.
Long hair.
Pretty.
Sexy.
S-line body.

Yes.. That is good.. Yes yes..





OK!! I was kidding. [;)]
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« Reply #105 on: 12/05/2007 15:49:17 »
For the most part attraction for me comes in different stages and areas not really on looks at all. Yes eyes are nice faces are all nice but build has nothing to do with it for me.. I want to know what comes from the heart and when I talk with someone if I do not feel that then I know that I could never be attracted to someone who did not firstly have a good heart!

Now I think it should all be done.. OK..

But Karen, when you are first meeting someone, or in the first few day or weeks of a relationship you are always on your best behaviour. Say and do the right things, pit the toilet seat down.....

It's only later that the real person shows, unless they are a complete buffoon and act like it from day 1.

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« Reply #106 on: 12/05/2007 15:52:03 »
Actually... Well I guess that the appearence is good for the first time attraction. If your beautiful, then people would be more attracted to you, until they realise the true you, with personality.. If your personality is good, they will stay. If it is bad, they will go away.

So appearence only attracts someone first time, then it is the personality which takes over. Appearence is only for a short-time period, and personality and other features are a long-time..
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« Reply #107 on: 12/05/2007 16:00:00 »
For the most part attraction for me comes in different stages and areas not really on looks at all. Yes eyes are nice faces are all nice but build has nothing to do with it for me.. I want to know what comes from the heart and when I talk with someone if I do not feel that then I know that I could never be attracted to someone who did not firstly have a good heart!

Now I think it should all be done.. OK..

But Karen, when you are first meeting someone, or in the first few day or weeks of a relationship you are always on your best behavior. Say and do the right things, pit the toilet seat down.....

It's only later that the real person shows, unless they are a complete buffoon and act like it from day 1.
I know people are different after you get to know them that is what I like about meeting people we are all like that! LOL It's great! I always see the side they want, but I have a way of seeing the other side too. just by talking with people if you are observent and a good listener you learn a great deal about people that they don't say.

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« Reply #108 on: 12/05/2007 16:02:08 »
It is about what they say and their eyes for me in initail attraction when meeting someone in person. Otherwise it is conversation and heart I feel when talking to someone like you!

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« Reply #109 on: 12/05/2007 16:02:53 »
Yes.. And not the massive bosoms.. [:-\]
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« Reply #110 on: 12/05/2007 16:15:56 »
Seany you are certainly Welcome to your own attractions, lOL I think I will stick to eyes etc.LOL

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« Reply #111 on: 12/05/2007 16:20:45 »
LOL.. OK. I'll stick with the long blonde hair. [;D] LOL!
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« Reply #112 on: 12/05/2007 16:29:02 »
There you go!LOL LOL

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« Reply #113 on: 12/05/2007 17:00:37 »
LOL.. [;D] Mehh........ I'm so bored. [;D]
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« Reply #114 on: 12/05/2007 17:11:03 »
Sorry Me is a boring gal!! You need to find something to do that keeps your mind active.

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« Reply #115 on: 12/05/2007 17:11:52 »
Oic. It's not you who is boring me.. Without you, I'd have died of boredom ages ago! You're the only one online at the moment LOL
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« Reply #116 on: 12/05/2007 17:33:38 »
Oh I had not noticed it happens like that all the time I get used to it so I don't pay attention anymore.LOL

Glad i ma not boring you.. I know I do others..LOL oh well.
Meet any nice young ladies Seany?

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« Reply #117 on: 12/05/2007 17:35:30 »
What.. nice as in hawt ^^ ? LOL

You (Karen)
Carolyn
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Sorry if I missed out anyone.. Blank on the top of ma head!
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« Reply #118 on: 12/05/2007 17:38:25 »
Awwwww, you're such a charmer Seany! [:)]
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« Reply #119 on: 12/05/2007 17:39:46 »
LOL. Tankz yoo *blushes*
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« Reply #120 on: 12/05/2007 17:41:09 »
You're welcome!
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« Reply #121 on: 12/05/2007 17:42:22 »
What.. nice as in hawt ^^ ? LOL

You (Karen)
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Sorry if I missed out anyone.. Blank on the top of ma head!

I was talking about your own age,..but thanks..LOL

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« Reply #122 on: 12/05/2007 17:42:56 »
Hi Carolyn!

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« Reply #123 on: 12/05/2007 17:44:56 »
Hiya Karen!
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« Reply #124 on: 12/05/2007 17:45:43 »
Are you having a good day?

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« Reply #125 on: 12/05/2007 17:47:29 »
Are you having a good day?

I suppose.  Just returned a little while ago from the funeral and I'm really tired.  Thinking seriously about a nap, but I'm sure about the time I fall asleep, my parents will return.
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« Reply #126 on: 12/05/2007 17:49:10 »
I am glad your parents made it safely. I hope you are well. keep your chin up Carolyn thats what she would have wanted too!

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« Reply #127 on: 12/05/2007 17:50:45 »
What.. nice as in hawt ^^ ? LOL

You (Karen)
Carolyn
Kadie
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Sorry if I missed out anyone.. Blank on the top of ma head!

I was talking about your own age,..but thanks..LOL

My own age, girls, in this forum?? You must be joking..
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« Reply #128 on: 12/05/2007 17:51:58 »
I was talking about school and socially! LOL

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« Reply #129 on: 12/05/2007 17:54:42 »
Oh.. Nice girls at this school.. None I fancy though, LOL!
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« Reply #130 on: 12/05/2007 17:56:20 »
Well one day you will find the perfect someone!

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« Reply #131 on: 12/05/2007 17:56:43 »
LOL. Thanks [;D]
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« Reply #132 on: 12/05/2007 17:58:24 »
Your welcome.. Go eat your dinner young man..LOL

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« Reply #133 on: 12/05/2007 17:58:44 »
LOL.. Ok.. Not that hungry though!
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« Reply #134 on: 12/05/2007 18:24:07 »
Well I am.. LOL I will eat too!

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« Reply #135 on: 12/05/2007 18:27:56 »
Well one day you will find the perfect someone!

Perfection is impossible - in anything.

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« Reply #136 on: 12/05/2007 18:31:15 »
Except in YOU! Hi, George.. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder.. and I behold perfection in YOU! :)


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« Reply #137 on: 12/05/2007 19:57:52 »
Yup.. There is definite perfection in George over there. [;)]
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« Reply #138 on: 12/05/2007 20:09:28 »
Yep In You TOO Seany.. I see it in people all the time..

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« Reply #139 on: 12/05/2007 20:13:55 »
I agree with George, what most people deem perfect can never be. But what is perfect for one is not perfect for another.. I know for me I know what my perfect fit is not to describe it or anything like that, It is how I feel with that persons presence their sense of self and others.. I cannot explain it.I want to make someone else feel as good as they make me feel and I think when two people can do that for each other and really enjoy the give and take of that then it can be incredible and totally fulfilling and wonderful!

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« Reply #140 on: 12/05/2007 23:44:10 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Jolly, what is going on with you and Kadie..? That seemd way inappropriate!

please explain the inappropriateness of this post.

I think she likes danny devito- she says she doesnt know him- I think shes lying! whats the problem?

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« Reply #141 on: 12/05/2007 23:52:35 »
For the most part attraction for me comes in different stages and areas not really on looks at all. Yes eyes are nice faces are all nice but build has nothing to do with it for me.. I want to know what comes from the heart and when I talk with someone if I do not feel that then I know that I could never be attracted to someone who did not firstly have a good heart!

Now I think it should all be done.. OK..

But Karen, when you are first meeting someone, or in the first few day or weeks of a relationship you are always on your best behaviour. Say and do the right things, pit the toilet seat down.....

It's only later that the real person shows, unless they are a complete buffoon and act like it from day 1.

I totally dis-agree with this type of behaviour! Why hide who you are that can only lead to problems later on...

Surely it is better to be honest and not lie.. I know its hard, and I know you dont own a jag, but seriously why lie when they find out it will always cause problems and shows a certain amount of insecurity!
People should be happy with themselves and not feel like they have to be someone else to get anywhere!
If the person doesnt want the real you then move on... Ofcourse a lot of men just want sex and therefore lie to get it and then run off!

Just thinking about 'when Harry met Sally' Theres the line he says to her:- 'after sex men just wonder how long do I have to lay here before I can leave?'

That is a total simptom of guilt- He's done all sorts of stuff to get sex and then after the fact- feels guilty and wants to run off!

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« Reply #142 on: 13/05/2007 01:10:27 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Jolly, what is going on with you and Kadie..? That seemed way inappropriate!

please explain the inappropriateness of this post.

I think she likes Danny devito- she says she doesn't know him- I think shes lying! whats the problem?

Jolly it is OK to think he is lying, but to call someone a liar in the forum is inappropriate . It is not for us to be calling people names in here.. I just want everyone to try to be less aggressive toward each other here in the forum... You are all welcome to opinions but if you have problems you need to deal with them privately. If that person chooses to not answer mails or messages you need to just know they do not wish to discuss it further. We cannot say derogative things about other members even if we don't agree. Those things we keep to ourselves to ensure that others feelings are not hurt .. including mine.. It is uncomfortable to here or see that  on the forum. Just try to not be quite so expressive..no name calling please..  message me if you need to talk further about it!

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« Reply #143 on: 13/05/2007 02:15:54 »
How anyone could be upset coz I said they were lying about fancying danny devito- I mean come on! Unless they are lying- ofcourse...lol

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« Reply #144 on: 13/05/2007 02:35:48 »
I know Jolly Just try to keep it lighter in the forum for me ok! 

I enjoyed your post in the beaver thread. I can't remember what the thread was called..LOL some Moderator I am.. LOL I think it was a great post. Perfect!

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« Reply #145 on: 13/05/2007 03:59:33 »
Thankyou lady, Glad to help people by talking about beaver!

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« Reply #146 on: 13/05/2007 04:18:19 »
i just meant it was inappropiate for him to say paul wanted a vagina that does dishes or whatever. that was mean. paul wants a nice pretty girl.

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« Reply #147 on: 13/05/2007 04:27:29 »
Yes I understood that part also.. I know what Paul meant.. It was inappropriate.... I had not caughtthat part when I posted to you.. Sorry.. Thanks Kadie!

How was the wedding..? Was it beautiful..? I bet it was!

 

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« Reply #148 on: 13/05/2007 04:28:05 »
Thankyou lady, Glad to help people by talking about beaver!

Thanks for making such a nice post!

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« Reply #149 on: 13/05/2007 04:30:05 »
um... yes it was i think i'm ok now but i think i called my ex