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« Reply #50 on: 07/05/2007 16:51:22 »
I have taken a year of Pre-Health sciences, which is Pre-Med for all of you non Canadians. Within that year I studied human sexuality, human growth and development, as well as anatomy and physiology. I am currently enrolled in a photography and film studies program.
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« Reply #51 on: 07/05/2007 16:51:34 »
Hey, man my connections could help out on your date if you ask her out!
Life is like a video game, always trying to win. To bad it's impossible to beat Death's high score.

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« Reply #52 on: 07/05/2007 16:55:22 »
Well Rosy's not interested- What do you think wasted Do you like line dancing?

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« Reply #53 on: 07/05/2007 17:00:10 »
Is that question directed at me?
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« Reply #54 on: 07/05/2007 17:03:49 »
I believe it was!!! LOL

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« Reply #55 on: 07/05/2007 17:09:00 »
Well, I thought we were discussing what people find physically attractive, but yes I do like line dancing.
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« Reply #56 on: 07/05/2007 17:09:39 »
Really?

Do you also like cheese, go karting and shooting cats?

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« Reply #57 on: 07/05/2007 17:11:22 »
Umm no, yes, and definalty not...as for linedancing yes, my friends and I occasionally take lessons on wednesdays, and thursday night is usually spent at a local country bar.
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« Reply #58 on: 07/05/2007 17:12:48 »
Well it's 2 out of four. I mean Rosy was terrible but you maybe the one for me [::)]

I think you'll like me I look like Big Foot!
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« Reply #59 on: 07/05/2007 20:14:38 »
Ele Please relax I am Joking!

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« Reply #60 on: 08/05/2007 01:19:46 »
i think you are attracted to what you are programmed to consider healthy and strong. the whole point is reproduction right? makes sense to want to produce healthy kids

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« Reply #61 on: 08/05/2007 05:21:06 »
Thank you kadie... that was my point!!! [:)] Glad somebody got it
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« Reply #62 on: 08/05/2007 13:51:47 »
It depends upon what you regard as 'healthy and strong'.  Social status is as much a relevant attractant as physiological health (rich men and politicians have no trouble finding someone to sleep with, no matter what their health situation - although it might be argued that physical health might also contribute to the development of social status, but there is not an exact correlation).

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« Reply #63 on: 12/05/2007 02:04:46 »
Well you might consider yourself to be a simple game theory, gene robot, who is clearly programmed to find centain things attractive!

I do not consider that to be a reality!

You are free to find anything attractive, and while there are certainly genetic areas for attraction, personality, social constructs, beer, and many other things contribute!

At the end of the day you could like someone who go's against all your genetic belifs- Look at Danny Devito the guys a stud!

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« Reply #64 on: 12/05/2007 02:23:39 »
Hi Jolly!

"Life is not measured by the number of Breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

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« Reply #65 on: 12/05/2007 02:34:55 »
At the end of the day you could like someone who go's against all your genetic belifs- Look at Danny Devito the guys a stud!

Not sure where this information comes from.  He seems to have only been married once (and still married), and does not seem (as far as I can ascertain) to have had a long list of girlfriends.

That having been said, I am sure that is his choice, rather than a choice forced upon him; since I am sure he has more than enough money and status to be able to attract as many girls as he chooses.

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« Reply #66 on: 12/05/2007 02:40:14 »
At the end of the day you could like someone who go's against all your genetic belifs- Look at Danny Devito the guys a stud!

Not sure where this information comes from.  He seems to have only been married once (and still married), and does not seem (as far as I can ascertain) to have had a long list of girlfriends.

That having been said, I am sure that is his choice, rather than a choice forced upon him; since I am sure he has more than enough money and status to be able to attract as many girls as he chooses.

DeVito is married to actress Rhea Perlman, with whom he has three children. I think, he may actually love the woman!
Money and status are one thing, but he does not need them to attract women, if he has already found "the one".

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« Reply #67 on: 12/05/2007 02:47:28 »
i think you just have to follow your intuition when you are looking for someone. whether we know it or not, we all know what we want!

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« Reply #68 on: 12/05/2007 02:59:38 »
i think you just have to follow your intuition when you are looking for someone. whether we know it or not, we all know what we want!

Maybe that is why I have remained single - I never trust my instincts - and the few occasions I have followed them, I found them seriously wanting in judgement.

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« Reply #69 on: 12/05/2007 03:02:07 »
sometimes you get hurt. but you never know if it's the right person unless you try, right?

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« Reply #70 on: 12/05/2007 03:03:40 »

Maybe that is why I have remained single - I never trust my instincts - and the few occasions I have followed them, I found them seriously wanting in judgement.

I go for looks, i don't care about personality or intellect. As long as she stands out in the crowd that's fine by me. Well, until she starts trying to get me to watch soap opera's!!! then it's time to move on.

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« Reply #71 on: 12/05/2007 03:06:59 »
but wouldn't standing out in a crowd be a personality thing?

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« Reply #72 on: 12/05/2007 03:07:22 »
A friend of ours, a lesbian, introduced one of us to her new girlfriend. And this new girlfriend looked very masculine. Excuse my crudeness but she was butch. This raised the question, why be a lesbian if you are still attracted to a masculine physique?

What is meant in this case by saying she is a lesbian?

Do you mean that she was generally attracted to women, or that she was in this case attracted to this woman?

Was she maybe bi?

Alternatively, did she have a problem with men in some other way - liked someone who looked a bit masculine, but could not get on with men is some way other than appearance?

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« Reply #73 on: 12/05/2007 03:09:25 »
but wouldn't standing out in a crowd be a personality thing?

No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good!  [;)]

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« Reply #74 on: 12/05/2007 03:14:29 »
I go for looks, i don't care about personality or intellect. As long as she stands out in the crowd that's fine by me.

This, to be honest, given what you said about food and visual appeal, does not surprise me at all.  You are clearly strongly affected by visual appeal.

There is only one aspect of visual appeal that realy has a significant impact on me and that is rithym - this applies also to rithym of voice, but also to rithym of movement.

But, to be fair, I find that the things that attract me to a woman when I first meet her will bore me by the time I get to know her - by then, I had better be able to find something more to hold my interest.

I also sometimes am actually wary of girls who are too attractive - I often take the view that if they are that good looking they have never really had to work at a relationship, or at much else, because they will just have men falling over themselves to do everything for her.  That kind of woman really is someone I would rather stay away from.

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« Reply #75 on: 12/05/2007 03:16:53 »
No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good!  [;)]

Sorry, I cannot really regard a woman (or anybody else) as just a bit of jewelry - but then, I don't go much for jewelry anyway.

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« Reply #76 on: 12/05/2007 03:19:19 »
sometimes you get hurt. but you never know if it's the right person unless you try, right?

You can lose a lot of good friends that way - women who feel safe with you because they believe you are not interested in them romantically.

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« Reply #77 on: 12/05/2007 03:19:30 »
oops i read that wrong paul. i thought you also said you didn't care about looks. lol... at least i can type today

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« Reply #78 on: 12/05/2007 03:21:12 »
i don't know. i was that girl once but after my friend brought it up we remained friends. he's actually one of my best friends now because he was honest with me.

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« Reply #79 on: 12/05/2007 03:22:48 »
then again i was honest right back. that's where people get all mixed up

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« Reply #80 on: 12/05/2007 03:22:49 »

This, to be honest, given what you said about food and visual appeal, does not surprise me at all.  You are clearly strongly affected by visual appeal.


Too a tee, to such an extent that last year i redecorated my lounge 5 times. Not that it was grotty, i just did not like it once it was finished.


But, to be fair, I find that the things that attract me to a woman when I first meet her will bore me by the time I get to know her - by then, I had better be able to find something more to hold my interest.


This is true, when looks are important.


I also sometimes am actually wary of girls who are too attractive - I often take the view that if they are that good looking they have never really had to work at a relationship, or at much else, because they will just have men falling over themselves to do everything for her.  That kind of woman really is someone I would rather stay away from.

There is a fine line there, i think those that are too attractive have more invested in themselves to realy need anyone else. There are also the most shallow, and ones you get bored with quicker.
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« Reply #81 on: 12/05/2007 03:24:00 »
LOL Ohhh I must be the girl for you George! LOL LOL.. Just teasing.. I have found this conversation quite interesting to say the least! LOL

That sounds like me George .. Always redoing everything till I have it the way I like it! LOL

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« Reply #82 on: 12/05/2007 03:24:30 »
although nobody should listen to me. i'm single too. lol

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« Reply #83 on: 12/05/2007 03:25:59 »
You have some very nice ideas and lovely qualities young lady!

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« Reply #84 on: 12/05/2007 03:26:52 »
and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!

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« Reply #85 on: 12/05/2007 03:28:25 »
thanks karen... now find a nice, attractive mid to late twenties or early thirties-ish guy and tell him that for me!

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« Reply #86 on: 12/05/2007 03:29:01 »
and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!

I truely detest decorating, but i just can't pick the right colours! So, i just start all over again.

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« Reply #87 on: 12/05/2007 03:30:50 »
remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol

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« Reply #88 on: 12/05/2007 03:31:55 »
ok i can do colors... i'm good with colors. i just can't find stuff! together we might get it right!

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« Reply #89 on: 12/05/2007 03:32:35 »
remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol
are you talking to me?.....guessed not, just hoping for a picture!

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« Reply #90 on: 12/05/2007 03:33:15 »
that sounded conceited. i'm not. but i just... well i know i'm attractive. lol. it's the other areas i have low self esteem in

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« Reply #91 on: 12/05/2007 03:34:16 »
i was talking to karen, but maybe i'll just post it on the pictures of ourselves thingy.

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« Reply #92 on: 12/05/2007 03:38:03 »
I would love to see your Pictures! LOL

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« Reply #93 on: 12/05/2007 04:56:51 »
i think you just have to follow your intuition when you are looking for someone. whether we know it or not, we all know what we want!

Maybe that is why I have remained single - I never trust my instincts - and the few occasions I have followed them, I found them seriously wanting in judgement.

Blame the beer....

but wouldn't standing out in a crowd be a personality thing?

No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good!  [;)]

Sounds like you want a virgina that washes plates!
 
Paul: Yeah, that is what I want!

...lol

and as far as Danny Devito go's im sure he was in the 100 fit blokes list somewhere.... bet kdlynn likes him!

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« Reply #94 on: 12/05/2007 05:09:17 »
i really am going to sleep after this, but i don't even know who danny devito is

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« Reply #95 on: 12/05/2007 05:14:12 »
Night Kadie..Sleep well!

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« Reply #96 on: 12/05/2007 05:17:35 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

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« Reply #97 on: 12/05/2007 06:56:18 »
Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Jolly, what is going on with you and Kadie..? That seemd way inappropriate!

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« Reply #98 on: 12/05/2007 11:22:27 »
nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate

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« Reply #99 on: 12/05/2007 15:13:09 »
nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate

Then you are ok? I was worried. Thanks kadie..

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