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yes of course Hadrian!!!!!   you made omid feel loser [:-'(] [:-'(] [:-'(]
no omid i can make you fell anything only you can do that as they are your feelings.so why do you chose to fell a loser?
They are not qualities they are choices.we can all change the way we chose to react.it may take a little time and that dose not mean we have to give up.just being aware that the way we react is not helping us is the big step forward yes?
so what would hapen if you did not think that?
It sound like you have invested a lot of energy in being loser you must be very successful at it. I can see why you might not wish to choose to be anything else. Being unsuccessful at absolutely everything is very hard to achieve. I am impressed. Well done. 
I can say i am not(and i am not) but you wont believe me will you?if you like being loser then who am i do say otherwise?bottom line is, what ever way you think you are then that's the way you are.think you are loser and soon you will behave like one.change the way you think, its your choice.its up to you.
well now that's intresting in it not. well perhaps if you take a look at one of thouse areas where you feel less successful and apply the same effort and attitude as you do to areas where you are successful things might change. you are anyting but a loser in 99% of your life so don't label yourself or think of you self based on the 1% or 2% (OK lets not get stuck on percentages)
Making friends with people and having intimate relationships with others requires skill. Some people have a lot of natural ability at this others have to learn it. Itís not unlike selling except you are marketing yourself. Do be good at this you have to build trust. Rapport is key. Rapport Rapport Rapport. Maybe lower you expectations a little at first. Perhaps set out to simply enjoy the company of others. Like selling it get harder if you are desperate.
OK try to learn about Rapport http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapport if you master rapport you will be successfull with girls too
then you are not building rapport with them even if you think you are.
Omid you can get help to sort out why this happening. There will be an answer and a way to sort it out. In my experience the answer is always something simple even if we believe itís a complicated problem. It was Einstein who said the madness was doing the same things a expecting a different result. So whatever you do, do something different get some help. We all deserve to be happy.
NO! if i thought you were mad i would say so directly.perhaps your grasp of English is getting in the way.healthy people get help for this sort of thing all the time it not about being mad its about finding happiness.
Maybe you need to find someone with the same values as you hold.
Again you misunderstand. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Values
stop playing games............. maybe [8D]
how would i know if you were or not. maybe i am 
so will we start again?how you think is how you arechange the way you think and you will change who you are. you chose
have to go now ... need to eat 
Winners versus LosersThe Winner is always a part of the answer;The Loser is always a part of the problem. The Winner always has a program;The Loser always has an excuse. The Winner says, "Let me do it for you;"The Loser says, "That's not my job." The Winner sees an answer for every problem;The Loser sees a problem in every answer. The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it's possible;"The Loser says, "It may be possible but it's too difficult." I found this on the internet and I posted this up on my forum a short time ago. I thought it was interesting. Personally I can see the winner and loser in myself in the way I react to stuff. Do you find this to be true to your experience with yourself and others?
No human is useless. I would need at least 4 to 6 sessions in person, with you to be able to give you a professional opinion. Since this is not possible I respectively suggest if you want help, find someone you can work with to help you. Right now all we are doing is playing with words and I can not see the point in continuing to do so. The language difficulties are two big between us and I do not want to risk being misunderstood by you again. Have a good day.
Quote from: Hadrian on 21/11/2009 19:04:08so will we start again?how you think is how you arechange the way you think and you will change who you are. you choseBut omid intrested to know what you think of omidC'mon say it omid useless or not?omid won't mind at all!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Quote from: Hadrian on 21/11/2009 22:57:45No human is useless. I would need at least 4 to 6 sessions in person, with you to be able to give you a professional opinion. Since this is not possible I respectively suggest if you want help, find someone you can work with to help you. Right now all we are doing is playing with words and I can not see the point in continuing to do so. The language difficulties are two big between us and I do not want to risk being misunderstood by you again. Have a good day.which of omid's posts say that omid need help?