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quote:Originally posted by osuisbestwhat happens to a person when they pass out? does it do any damage to the person when it happens?my other half has the tendency when he is angry to choke me until i pass out. so i am wondering if anything could go wrong?
quote:Originally posted by CarolynAndrea - YES IT ABSOLUTELY DOES DAMAGE TO YOU. IT DOES DAMAGE TO YOUR CHILDREN TOO! Watching their mother be physically and emotionally abused changes them and hurts them. It robs them of their childhood and their innocence. It also sets them up to become involved in physically abusive relationships also. What would you say to your daughter if she were with someone who choked her or beat her? You would tell her to get out. Why would you want any less for you? I realize it's easy for us to sit back and say get out, but if he's physically hurting you, you must! I know financially it will difficult, to say the least. Go on government assistance if you have to. Go online and research where to get help, but do something to get yourself and your children out of this situation.Carolyn
quote:Originally posted by osuisbestok, first of all thank you all for the wonderful words of encouragement. i appreciate them immensly. no neil i am not joking. i am being serious. but things have actually gotten better then what they were. so i will gladly take this over what used to be. but i was serious about what could actually happen to the human brain when this happens. secondly, none of this ever happens in front of the children. so no worries there. and he is an abolutely wonderful father. he is really good with the children. but i didnt ask the question for pity or anything like that. i was really curious as to the science part of it. i know yall may not understand but that is ok. thanks again.
quote:Originally posted by moonfireYes, it is too much and it is overwhelming, but it will be a library of resource for her. It would have been too much for me to take in..yes, this is true Neil..someone needs to be her ear and hopefully she will go to a safe place like a bestfriend..."Lo" Loretta