Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)

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« Reply #4250 on: 06/05/2009 03:57:58 »
It won't let me post long messages

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« Reply #4251 on: 06/05/2009 03:58:56 »
I need Dr. Waldinger's info bad. Please PM it to me.. with his case studies.

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« Reply #4252 on: 06/05/2009 04:00:02 »
Hi, I've PM'd multiple people and tried posted multiple times on this forum in the POIS thread, but everything seems to error. I hope this topic actually shows up.

I don't know what's wrong, but I hope someone will send my message to Demografx ( I need the Waldinger case study from him ASAP), or willl transfer this in the POIS thread, as my multiple attempts with different computers wouldn't do anything for me.

Anyways, here's the message I intended to post in the POIS thread, in response to Demografx talking about Dr. Waldinger.

Hi Demografx,

First off, I'd like to thank you for the never-ending efforts you put into this forum and people with POIS.

I'm a 18 year old male student attending high school.. and I've recently come to realize that ever since I hit puberty, I've actually not been feeling what everyone else feels after emission. I've recently been accepted to a top university in California, but shortly after became depressed when I found out that I had the disadvantage of POIS that the other upcoming students in college will not have. I guess I've had it since a bit after puberty, but haven't really realized that nobody else in my classes feel the same way I do after emissions.

Anyway, I'll get to the nit-witty info later. I'm mainly posting here to get info about the Dr. Waldinger study of POIS. Hopefully I'll be able to use it to both motivate me and prove to people that what I feel is real. The only person I've been able to talk to is my art teacher, and I hope to dear God that I can tell my parents.

I PM'd you multiple times, but it doesn't seem to get through. If you could just e-mail me the info of Waldinger's case study, I'd give a thousand thanks.

Thanks for any help, and I hope you see this and reply as soon as possible. Again, I thank you for any info you can send me to back me up.

-JasonD

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« Reply #4253 on: 06/05/2009 09:33:45 »
Hi Jason, your PM came thru fine. I think that typing an email address can be a problem in PM, so use AT instead of @. Also to be safe try dotcom instead of .com

I understand how desperate things get. Most of us do. I think there's an excellent chance for you to find  successful treatment. I hope you can find an understanding doctor. Some of us feel that an endocrinologist is best for us. One can be found by referral by your physician.

Keep in mind that none of us here are doctors. We are here to help each other by sharing our experiences, theories and treatments or experiments.

Tell us more about yourself. I have some ideas, but the "collective mind" of this forum is where the real power lies.

Best wishes and welcome to the group!
« Last Edit: 06/05/2009 09:50:09 by demografx »

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« Reply #4254 on: 06/05/2009 17:54:01 »
...but shortly after became depressed when I found out that I had the disadvantage of POIS that the other upcoming students in college will not have....

I have felt this way sometimes.  But remember, many college students have disabilities -- diabetes, ADD, thyroid, etc.  You just have to work through it.  Don't half-ass your way through because you feel righteously angry about your situation. In the words of Yoda, "do or do not, there is no try". :) And I don't think giving up is ever in someone's best interests.

Also, remember that the Waldinger paper only discusses 2 patients, versus the approximately 300 people who have been discovered through this forum.  It is quite likely that Waldinger's paper does not very accurately describe your condition, because his characterization is based on very little data.  There is far more information in this thread, and in the survey, and even in the wikipedia article, than in Waldinger's paper.  Nevertheless, the Waldinger paper is definitely useful to draw attention to the problem.

And, to everyone reading, I would not expect miracles from visiting a physician.  I think seeing physicians and endocrinologists is the right thing to do (e.g. it has really helped demografx), but you can't expect the first doctor, or even the second, third, fourth, or fifth doctor to be very helpful.  This is a hard problem, and many physicians do not want the responsibility of trying to figure it out.  Your best bet, in my opinion, is to see a research endocrinologist, who has a university affiliation.  In other words, a doctor who not only does clinical practice, but who also writes research papers.  This is NOT a known condition, so some experimentation will need to be done.  Beforehand, I would try to understand the endocrine concerns that have been raised here: prolactin, cortisol, testosterone, pituitary issues, adrenal issues, thyroid etc.
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Re: Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)
« Reply #4255 on: 06/05/2009 19:47:28 »
Counterpoints, excellent suggestion about a research endocrinologist. I'll put that in future greetings to newcomers.

Maybe one reason for my success is that I am working with a major university medical center's endocrinologist, who is also a full tenured professor with 30 years experience. And his colleague is in charge of major grant research projects. The university environment is perhaps more conducive to "new" things, like POIS.

And thanks, CP, for strengthening my private messages about the limitations of Waldinger's study. Others need to hear that as well.

Again, the primary way I see Waldinger's paper's usefulness is to establish medical credibility about POIS when we show it to family, friends or doctors. It certainly helped me with my endocrinologist (the co-author of the Waldinger study is an endocrinologist, which my endocrinologist was happy to learn).
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Re: Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)
« Reply #4256 on: 06/05/2009 20:02:37 »
Jdubs, welcome to the POIS thread of The Naked Science Forum!




The consensus at this forum to heal your POIS, is to start with hormonal bloodtesting, preferably with a research endocrinologist. Your primary care physician can refer you to one.
 
Here are some POIS forum resources which may be helpful to you:

Please see "B_Jim"'s POIS Forum Summary of All Cases, here as well as others on the Web. This includes remedies that we have tested, and results.
http://www.thenakedscientists.com/forum/index.php?topic=6576.msg149009#msg149009

"Girlwind" has created an excellent POIS Video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWBxAUC9k1g

And filling out the POIS survey created by "Counterpoints" will enable you to share POIS information and details with others here. This will also enable us to work more easily with outside researchers by having more organized data available about us:
http://pois.olympe-network.com/


New York Times article

January 20, 2009
Mind
Sex and Depression: In the Brain, if Not the Mind
By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/20/health/views/20mind.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=friedman%20sexual%20January%2020&st=cse


In addition to serving our own informational interests, the resources listed above can be useful for you to show the medical world - which often shows little understanding and is sometimes skeptical of our condition - that POIS has scientific underpinnings and that POIS is not "just another psychological problem" related to sex - to be treated by the psychiatric/psychotherapist community.

Also, it can be helpful when dealing with medical professionals to point out the successful existence of our rapidly growing forum for over 2 years, which has attracted over 100 POIS sufferers worldwide who have posted here, plus more than 250,000 page visits. Not bad for a rare malady!
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Re: Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)
« Reply #4257 on: 06/05/2009 20:30:27 »

you can't expect the first doctor, or even the second, third, fourth, or fifth doctor to be very helpful.


I'm much more optimistic! I would agree with you in my case and maybe yours, in the past.

But I think that today, and going forward, we have accumulated much more data on POIS, and terrific support from many other sufferers, especially on this forum.

Also, in considering the usefulness of doctors for us today, I'm including the new sufferer's testing of experiments and treatments of others that have been reported, some successfully, such as fenugreek and relora (I think they should be brought to a doctor's attention, especially for the younger people). Add to that the testing of some of the other theories here, e.g., oxytocin, nitric oxide, Levitra, etc. There are some treatments that would need to be monitored most carefully by physicians, since they're potentially dangerous.

But, more and more, we have reason to hope for POIS treatment  success, and much more quickly than ever before, building on others' previous experiments and successes.

For example, I don't believe that I'm the only POIS sufferer in the world who will ever find relief by (1) seeing an endocrinologist, (2) testing standard hormones accurately, and (3) getting POIS relief with testosterone replacement therapy. And, in this example, there's no reason to not expect this to go smoothly and quickly for a new POIS sufferer with a case similar to mine...qualifiedly, in some cases.

But it certainly won't take 30+ years' life-wasting despair and agony like it did for me!

Part of my optimism is based on the POIS sufferer being proactive by becoming a committed student of POIS knowledge and history and to not take BS from a lazy physician. Perhaps even to take the lead with a physician in a cooperative manner. An opposite, passive approach might very well lead nowhere.

I agree that we should not expect miracles, but to say "you can't expect [even] the...5th doctor to be very helpful" is - just in my opinion, today - very discouraging and not really accurate. I do, however, respect your words of caution: it can be devastating to have our hopes raised and then to be let down and not gently. And repeatedly.

It will be different for everyone, I suspect. Call me Mr. Pollyanna [:D]
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Re: Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)
« Reply #4258 on: 06/05/2009 22:17:42 »
B_Jim, my creatinine was tested high. Since it is produced in the pancreas, I wonder if that relates at all to your theory?

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« Reply #4259 on: 06/05/2009 22:18:11 »
Update
I have tried Relora in small amounts recently to test my tolerance for it, and it gave me a glimmer of hope. (I tried it previously but it affected me too much and I felt like I was drugged.) Last weekend I had an NE and I took the ľ amount that I was experimenting with, along with my garlic. I took the Relora the day before and the day after, about 60mg each. (It was in a 250mg capsule so I divided up the powder and consumed it with some water.) I had no symptoms, but the really surprising thing was that I had the best sleep I have had in a long time the following night. Whereas I usually wake early and have a disturbed sleep thereafter that night was perfect. This could be a coincidence, but considering the success others here have had with Relora it may be responsible. The odd thing is that it is now over a week later and I am experiencing the ďburnt outĒ phase that I would typically get with my POIS. For me Phase A was the deep cognitive problems (worst phase) that lasted for up to a week followed by this burnt out feeling, Phase B.  This time I experienced the B but no A. 

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« Reply #4260 on: 06/05/2009 22:25:09 »
John, this sounds terrific!! I'm really sorry to hear about Phase B, but is it at least any shorter in time? Phase A lasts a week, how about Phase B?

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« Reply #4261 on: 06/05/2009 22:28:32 »
I agree that we should not expect miracles, but to say "you can't expect [even] the...5th doctor to be very helpful" is - just in my opinion, today - very discouraging and not really accurate. I do, however, respect your words of caution. It will be different for everyone, I suspect. Call me Mr. Pollyanna [:D]

You can't expect any *individual* doctor to be particularly helpful, unfortunately; however, if you are persistent with the doctors you do see, and in seeing new doctors, I think you can expect to be helped.  Obviously in this case such persistence is worth the efforts.

My point is that if you expect too much from any one physician, you will likely set yourself up to be let down.  Generally, physicians are not going to seriously exert themselves to study a completely unknown condition.  There are a variety of reasons for this. This is even true of conditions like Cushing's disease, where a decent body of research has been conducted, and there are known treatments.  Having read through personal stories of Cushings, many sufferers are brushed off for years (and sometimes even belittled!), by one doctor after another, until he or she gets lucky and finds a physician willing to "go the extra mile" towards a rigorous examination and diagnosis.

The overall message is not to get discouraged if you see a doctor and he doesn't go out of his way to help you.  Even doctors who do not think this is psychosomatic, and have some genuine concern, may not do very much.  It is important to be extremely persistent, and to keep seeing new physicians, until you find that one who will "go the extra mile" -- one who will examine you carefully, see you more than once, consider tests that will be useful, and ultimately, have a plan of action to help you.  Generally, the physicians most receptive to studying unknown conditions, and who are willing to conduct experimental tests, and take some risks to find out what's going on, are researchers -- they publish their research in journals.  So seeing a research endocrinologist seems like the most promising option, in my opinion.   These doctors will usually be research professors at universities.

Also, I suggest while you're talking to the doctor, to make it clear that your concerns are important, and that you need a plan of action.
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« Reply #4262 on: 06/05/2009 22:29:13 »
B_Jim, my creatinine was tested high. Since it is produced in the pancreas, I wonder if that relates at all to your theory?

Interesting that you mention this.  My creatinine has repeatedly tested high.  It's something that's usually measured in a 24 hr urine collection, for cortisol.  So that's why I've had it tested.
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« Reply #4263 on: 06/05/2009 23:20:22 »
Demo,
I'm estimating that Phase B typically lasted between 4-7 days.
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« Reply #4264 on: 07/05/2009 00:55:52 »
Hi all,

I just wanted to add to the info that I had already put of myself here.

So a bit about myself: I love the arts. I play the tenor sax, love jazz, and love understanding culture around me. I like to create ideas. My focus at the moment is toward my major in college (becoming a freshman next year) at UCLA as a Design Media Arts major. I'm hoping that UCLA will have some cooperative staff, but I guess I can't get my hopes too high. Seeing that my main love is creating ideas and representations of the world around me, it becomes EXTREMELY frustrating when I become completely inable to create.. well.. anything.

My symptoms usually last about 48 hours(longer depending on the ejaculation or arousal thereafter). When it becomes close to the end of the 48 hours, I usually try to work out a bit and rub it off. Maybe rest a bit after the work out, and a few hours later or the next morning will be fine. My symptoms are pretty much what everyone else has already stated- dhea, heavy fatigue, some stuffy nose (congestion), inability to think creatively (or put words/actions well). I can't improv music or think of new sentences. Aches in body too. When I try working out or flex a bit, my muscles feel separate from my body and aching (I'm sure some of you must feel this too). I also tend to forget things I seemed to learn during the symptoms..or sometimes some things I learned a bit before. HEAVY sleepiness. Very inconsistent sleeping, I'd fall asleep in a few hours nap sometimes but other times can't sleep at all. Lack of emotion.. this is the most damaging of all, I feel. People will tell me jokes and I'll just look at them like, "ok..." I lose sympathy for anything. Inability to control feelings if there are any. Lots of depression.. fortunately I feel very hopeful of life after it's all over, but during it.. I feel sometimes I could kill myself within that time period I have symptoms.

That's all I remember for now.. I'll add more later.

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« Reply #4265 on: 07/05/2009 01:35:14 »

For me Phase A was the deep cognitive problems (worst phase) that lasted for up to a week followed by this burnt out feeling, Phase B.  This time I experienced the B but no A. 



John, 

We've got to destroy Phase B!

 [:)]

CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN ON "NO A"!!
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« Reply #4266 on: 07/05/2009 05:55:16 »
Jdubs,

Thanks for posting. Sounds like your POIS symptoms are close to many of ours. It's really sad to see creativity go out the window with this vicious ailment of ours.

Your emotional reaction of "ok" to a joke is so familiar to me! (and others I'm sure)It is pathetically disturbing to our well-being!

Many of us have had your cycles of post-POIS hopefulness and then, upon return of the inevitable, descended into your depths of hopelessness. I certainly have. But the consistent thing to know is DON'T GIVE UP. You have it far far better than many sufferers just by finding this place and becoming active in it. Many of us have found relief from just that activity: posting, reading, researching right here.

And the timing couldn't be better: I was in the "wilderness" for over 30 years. No one to talk to. And when I finally mustered the courage to say something, I was shot down with "blank stares" or near-ridicule. Now we have a "community" building strength, knowledge and....hope!

I somehow survived all these 30+ years by PUSHing myself to the next step. Any positive step, no matter how silly or "small". Seeing another doctor, therapist or "guru". Calling "experts" around the world. Reading. Lectures. Trying new techniques. Trying reasonable treatments. They might have all produced little, but they KEPT ME GOING. And they landed me here, finding John21's post and getting very involved on this forum.

And, incredibly, so far, my POIS treatment is working! It's a new life.

We've been here now at this forum a little over two years and the progress has been tremendous. Just ask John21 (POIS thread's very first poster!), B_Jim, Counterpoints, Martin, Guthrie, Pyropeach and other "oldtimers".

Welcome again. Glad you're here!
« Last Edit: 07/05/2009 06:52:59 by demografx »

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« Reply #4267 on: 07/05/2009 08:11:09 »
Jdubs--
You will find a cure. You're very young, and this forum will provide you with many great ideas. You will do fine at UCLA. As Counterpoints observed, there are a lot of people with other types of disabilities. You will be at home at UCLA (I know the place quite well). I credit this forum for helping me focus. I have had general anxiety disorder and POIS for a long time (I'm 60). This forum has helped me nearly wipe out my GAD in just over 6 months! HOW? Stay focused. Be positive. Keep accurate records of how you feel. I think UCLA has some good student counseling-If you still have POIS when you get there. I won't comment about my POIS, because I think we each have to find our own way. This forum will give you the best support in the world.
Just to know that you are with others who share the same difficulties is a great help.
One last thing that is hard to accept: Progress may not be linear and continuous. There will be pitfalls and regressions. But you will eventually succeed. The most difficult thing for me is to accept and work through the pitfalls as I progress.
But my accurate record keeping tells me that the long term prognosis is quite hopeful.

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« Reply #4268 on: 07/05/2009 22:38:06 »
Update
I have tried Relora in small amounts recently to test my tolerance for it, and it gave me a glimmer of hope. (I tried it previously but it affected me too much and I felt like I was drugged.) Last weekend I had an NE and I took the ľ amount that I was experimenting with, along with my garlic. I took the Relora the day before and the day after, about 60mg each. (It was in a 250mg capsule so I divided up the powder and consumed it with some water.) I had no symptoms, but the really surprising thing was that I had the best sleep I have had in a long time the following night. Whereas I usually wake early and have a disturbed sleep thereafter that night was perfect. This could be a coincidence, but considering the success others here have had with Relora it may be responsible. The odd thing is that it is now over a week later and I am experiencing the ďburnt outĒ phase that I would typically get with my POIS. For me Phase A was the deep cognitive problems (worst phase) that lasted for up to a week followed by this burnt out feeling, Phase B.  This time I experienced the B but no A. 

John21, I have also noticed a lot better sleep while taking relora.  The only thing I recommend is to stop taking it once you feel like it has no affect on your mood, once you feel like you achieved that "mood" while taking it I suggest to stop for a few days and still see if you need it because it will constantly make you tired.

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« Reply #4269 on: 08/05/2009 01:38:49 »
Goingcrazy,
After taking it for a few times 1/4 capsule doesn't have a noticable side effects, but I will keep that in mind. Thanks.

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« Reply #4270 on: 08/05/2009 03:37:10 »
Today, the early hours of Day Zero were a little unpleasant. Somewhat fatigued and a bit anxious. A nap broke the ice. Last few hours were almost POIS-free!

This is the way I used to feel on Day 4.

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« Reply #4271 on: 08/05/2009 03:52:19 »

It won't let me post long messages


Has anyone else noticed problems either with posting a Private Message or posting a message here at the forum?

If the post is lengthy, I find the Private Message "jumps back" to an earlier part of the message. I could only cut and paste into Notepad, continue typing, and then cut and paste back out to PM to make it work.

Anyway, I registered a complaint. There was a problem with this recently, assumed fixed, but maybe now it's come back.
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« Reply #4272 on: 08/05/2009 19:06:10 »
Posted last year, I thought it might be interesting to re-post this for the newcomers, for searching our previous posts on fenugreek, relora, etc.

SEARCH POIS FORUM WITH GOOGLE

I just stumbled on this. As many of you know, the POIS forum  Search function is a work in progress. Can be frustrating.

So I searched Google to see how to better Google-search our POIS Forum. Why? Because we have an overwhelming amount of data: nearly 2 years' worth of posts from 130+ Forum members.

In the Google search box, type
whatever you're interested in finding[space]site:http://www.thenakedscientists.com/

for example, I tried
demografx site:http://www.thenakedscientists.com/

and 1,000+ results came up for "demografx" within POIS Forum.

whenever I tried to use Google "as is" - without the way I described above - I would typically find only about two (2) results.

Google even provides you results with the Message# for each result.

Happy Googling!
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« Reply #4273 on: 08/05/2009 19:37:39 »
POIS DIARY


Today, the early hours of Day Zero were a little unpleasant. Somewhat fatigued and a bit anxious. A nap broke the ice. Last few hours were almost POIS-free!

This is the way I used to feel on Day 4.


A scary part of POIS is the feeling that "this will NEVER go away". I felt that again yesterday morning. In spite of DECADES of experience that the fog ALWAYS lifts eventually. And with treatment it lifts now within hours. This morning (Day One) is once again terrific, and hopefully writing that will bring hope to others.
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« Reply #4274 on: 09/05/2009 02:01:48 »
POIS THREAD NAME AS A QUESTION?

I discussed this with another mod, and according to Chris, the founder of this Naked Science Forum, it allows the internet search engines to find the information better when it's in the form of a Question. She also wrote, "Make sure Your Question kind of gives a general feel of the topic!"

Examples, "Do I have Post Orgasmic illness Syndrome (POIS)?","What is Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS)?"

Without using a Question, we have attracted over 130 posters and nearly 300,000 page views.

Any thoughts? Let it stay? Change it?
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« Reply #4275 on: 09/05/2009 22:07:45 »
Demografx,

I think either way, people who are desperate enough to find an answer will find it one way or another.

As for spreading awareness, I feel there's so many other ways that haven't been explored yet, and changing this forum too much probably wouldn't matter large scale.

I'm planning on getting checked sometime next week.


I'm starting to feel that any kind of stress is bad. Just feel good! Being happy overall I feel lowers recovery time somehow. Just stopping all the analyzing of one's self can reduce the effects of some symptoms, I think. But it can only do so much, I think it just helps with the pain DURING recovery from symptoms somehow.


EDIT//

also, dance. and sing. instead of feeling like you're forcing yourself not to give in, just know that you don't have to, and lift some weights. of course, I think just trying to improve over time is the best idea. trying to make big differences in short amounts of time is really stressing and can make it worse.
« Last Edit: 09/05/2009 22:18:40 by Jdubs »

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« Reply #4276 on: 10/05/2009 00:32:57 »
Jdubs, thanks for that! My tendency has always been, "if it's not broken, don't fix it." We have done very well with Google and nothing else.

Any suggestions for spreading awareness are more than welcome!

I agree, the more we focus on "living large" out-of-POIS, the better we'll feel when POIS hits.

Many thanks for your comments.

Congratulations on getting your check-up next week!!
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« Reply #4277 on: 10/05/2009 04:57:56 »
Demografx,


Sorry for posting too much (but who can resist when a hint of progress has come up), but I was referring to thinking and lifestyle WHILE in POIS, not when out. I do think that lifting weights and eating accordingly probably reduces symptoms while IN POIS, but just in case you fall in that HORRIBLE stage of POIS that you've fallen in before, I think there's a few things that can help:

1. Relieve yourself. Whether this means by emission, or anything else.  Just sit back and think. Sit or walk around, just move around a little bit and think. Don't think of deadlines or money or any kind of work. Hey, THEY'LL WAIT FOR YOU. Let yourself say this: "Hey world, give me a sec, I'm just chillin' here for a bit." Having that mindset of keeping YOUR PACE. (You guys probably do this stuff already though). I've tried this recently, and it does help me a little about feeling better during it I think. READING THIS IS PROBABLY MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. Whenever you feel emotions rise, just stop what you're doing and start humming your favorite tune. Yeah, I feel like sleeping, and I may close my eyes or lay down for a bit, but I won't sleep. I just stay in a calm state and try not to let things around me affect me emotionally (I feel emotions can worsen symptoms overall.)

2. Drink lots of fluids? (or at least enough) A lot of the time I feel I forget to drink enough fluids while in symptoms. When I drink a lot and go to the bathroom a lot, I feel it relieves me in a way. You'll remember to get your daily doses but somehow I think it stalls arousal down there..

Listening to calm music feels good. But do whatever you need to feel good, just don't feel that any specific thing you're doing is wrong.


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« Reply #4278 on: 10/05/2009 14:47:28 »
Quote
Sorry for posting too much (but who can resist when a hint of progress has come up), but I was referring to thinking and lifestyle WHILE in POIS, not when out. I do think that lifting weights and eating accordingly probably reduces symptoms while IN POIS, but just in case you fall in that HORRIBLE stage of POIS that you've fallen in before, I think there's a few things that can help:

1. Relieve yourself. Whether this means by emission, or anything else.  Just sit back and think. Sit or walk around, just move around a little bit and think. Don't think of deadlines or money or any kind of work. Hey, THEY'LL WAIT FOR YOU. Let yourself say this: "Hey world, give me a sec, I'm just chillin' here for a bit." Having that mindset of keeping YOUR PACE. (You guys probably do this stuff already though). I've tried this recently, and it does help me a little about feeling better during it I think. READING THIS IS PROBABLY MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. Whenever you feel emotions rise, just stop what you're doing and start humming your favorite tune. Yeah, I feel like sleeping, and I may close my eyes or lay down for a bit, but I won't sleep. I just stay in a calm state and try not to let things around me affect me emotionally (I feel emotions can worsen symptoms overall.)

2. Drink lots of fluids? (or at least enough) A lot of the time I feel I forget to drink enough fluids while in symptoms. When I drink a lot and go to the bathroom a lot, I feel it relieves me in a way. You'll remember to get your daily doses but somehow I think it stalls arousal down there..

Listening to calm music feels good. But do whatever you need to feel good, just don't feel that any specific thing you're doing is wrong.

If your "HORRIBLE stage of POIS" is relieved by singing songs and drinking water I think that your malady is categorically different that mine.

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« Reply #4279 on: 10/05/2009 16:49:53 »
Sorry for not posting so long.
I was busy interpreting test results and doctor visits and lifting weights.

Test results

Testosterone before emission : total 9.77 ( 9.72-38.17) free 221 (174-729)
Testosterone after emission : total 9.05  free 202
I took tests 1 hour apart. So there is a small decrease, with both values of total T just below normal and free very low-normal. I didnít find an increase in T, still wonder what the test would have shown if I had taken it 5 to 10 minutes after emission.

I also have an out-of-pois reading of 10.9 and  342. Surprisingly one test 2 days after emission came back looking a third above lower range (different measures are used), I did't feel bad then anyway. It was after the second emission in a week and I slept like a baby the night before. Also my THS ranges between 2.2 and 4. (0.25-3.10)

Docís visit
Of course first docís visit was with the values in range. In 2 weeks I have a new meeting with another endocrinologist, will show the new values of testosterone.  I also showed my low T to my GP. He said it might be causing symptoms (I just quoted symptoms not the sexual thing), but he also said when you donít exercise much your T-levels go down. I think Iím quite active. But anyway, in preparation to new endo visit, I picked up weightlifting.

Nightly orgasms

Still stuck with many many nightly orgasms (not emissions). I think someone called those brain orgasms. Iím off eastern medication for 2 months, so any side effects should be gone now. I keep waking up at 1 or 4, not being able to sleep and the next day pois symptoms are present. If I reach day 2 (without orgasm) I feel much better than last year. So my main focus now is to break the cycle somehow. If anyone has ideas that have not been mentioned here, please share.
« Last Edit: 10/05/2009 16:51:40 by rock27 »
POIS, fatigue, brain fog, can't find words, irritated, can't concentrate.

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« Reply #4280 on: 10/05/2009 19:12:32 »
Rocky, very exhaustive. Congratulations on taking these major steps!!

My endo wants to see my T-levels go to midrange normal by June or he'll increase my dose. So it may be interesting to see what your endo thinks about a goal for you.

Please keep us posted!

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« Reply #4281 on: 10/05/2009 19:21:36 »
Jdubs, good to know what works for you. We're all different so some things that work for some people can backfire on others.

For example, relaxing by emission would work for me for 10 minutes, and then would quicky lead to a far more devastating POIS than if I had just left things alone. I'm sure that many others here experience the same.

My psychiatrist suggested to "expect less of yourself in POIS". I also found that forgetting thoughts about POIS symptoms as much as possible can help.

But as John points out, POIS can literally overwhelm any attempt at living happily or normally while symptomatic.

Many thanks for contributing your thoughts.


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« Reply #4282 on: 10/05/2009 20:30:36 »
Yeah, exactly.

The first part of my post I was just explaining what might help calm down symptoms, and I think not thinking about it and staying positive (like you/psychiatrist feel) is the best way to go.

I'm not really sure if the fluids really work, but I just felt I forgot to drink often :P

EDIT//

One thing I wanted to ask about Relora.

I know that many people have found relief from this med., but it's only something that affects you WHILE you're in POIS, right? In another words, it only helps the symptoms and not the cause? For people having used Relora, are your symptoms weaker even if you don't use Relora after emission? Does it balance your hormones in any way long-term? Or is it only a short-term relief pill?
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« Reply #4283 on: 11/05/2009 17:13:11 »
Jdubs, while you're waiting for replies, here are some past posts on relora:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=relora+POIS+site%3Ahttp%3A%2F%2Fthenakedscientists.com

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« Reply #4284 on: 13/05/2009 19:40:01 »
So your T goes down.... does T go down after O for everybody in the population?

Or it this one of the issues?

If you had really low T, how do you normally feel if POIS was not in the picture?

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« Reply #4285 on: 13/05/2009 23:27:33 »
I can't speak for Rocky, but before T-treatment, my vitality was low out-of-POIS.

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« Reply #4286 on: 14/05/2009 03:38:01 »
Define vitality please....

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« Reply #4287 on: 14/05/2009 06:10:52 »
weird thing happenned to me last night... i haven't orgasmed in about 10 days and last night i felt as if my vision problems and derealization went away.  I remember when you were talking about the frontal lobe of your brain being shut down (not referring to somebody specifically) but all of a sudden last night I felt as if it was turned on again.. I opened my eyes and it was as if i was cross-eyed and couldn't focus for a moment, but then i felt actually "de-derealized". I still feel like that now and haven't orgasmed since, hopefully I might have recovered at least somewhere.

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« Reply #4288 on: 14/05/2009 07:34:39 »
Vitality? I agree with Merriam-Webster. The peculiarity distinguishing the living from the nonliving. Capacity to live and develop. Physical or mental vigor especially when highly developed. Power of enduring. Lively and animated character.

Simplified, it's just a feeling of well-being. Plus a touch of excitement =  being "alive".

Merriam-Webster's "vigor" above is  a good synonym.
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« Reply #4289 on: 14/05/2009 15:46:11 »
So your T goes down.... does T go down after O for everybody in the population?
An italian study says testosterone is increased after orgasm.
Other study says T is increased at day 7 and then decreased  [???].

An other says 3 weeks of sexual abstinence is the cause for higher levels of T but T levels are not changed after orgasm (the change is gradual ?)

Some hypothesis (not necessarily related to the studies above):
-The duration of abstinence before an orgasm(ex: 3 weeks abstinence vs one day or one hour) could be the cause for differents responses of the T levels after orgasms.

-Maybe pois is caused by hormones fluctuations rather than a clear deficiency.

One thing is sure, it's not easy to make conclusions with only one or two tests or cases.


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« Reply #4290 on: 14/05/2009 18:16:42 »
Martin, don't some scientists also say there is an immediate drop afterwards? My sense is that there's no consensus.

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« Reply #4291 on: 14/05/2009 18:26:04 »
It is now Day Zero, starting one hour ago and POIS symptoms are very mild. It's so amazing that I could've been spared 30+ years of repeat agony with just testosterone treatment!

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« Reply #4292 on: 14/05/2009 19:01:47 »
demo

See I wonder if T treatment is covering up POIS, or cures it....

If I take one of my Ativan 1mg, wait 20 minutes, have sex.... voila, no POIS.... and the lesser POIS symptoms I get in day 2 and 3 are very very low....

Its all very complicated.

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« Reply #4293 on: 14/05/2009 20:54:25 »
I'm not sure if total testosterone is an extremely useful test.  Several different testosterone tests might give you general trends... but I think it fluctuates quite a bit, especially in young people.

In late January, at around 9 am, my total testosterone measured 30 nmol/L. (I was symptomatic at the time).  This is at the very upper limit of normal... some might consider it high (it is out of range by some standard references).  In late April, at about 9 am, my total testosterone measured 17 nmol/L. (I was not symptomatic at the time).  This is sort of low-normal for a male adult.  However, I don't know if this kind of fluctuation is abnormal.
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« Reply #4294 on: 14/05/2009 20:58:47 »
rock27, deliberate masturbation can "break the cycle" of wet dreams. 

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« Reply #4295 on: 15/05/2009 01:16:46 »
POIS-SUFFERER, you bring up an interesting point. But I do feel better in and out of POIS, I think, because my testosterone levels were deficient, and now they're approaching normalcy.

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« Reply #4296 on: 15/05/2009 04:32:43 »
Martin, don't some scientists also say there is an immediate drop afterwards? My sense is that there's no consensus.
I never saw this. I can only suppose this is true, because a lot of pois symptoms are also low T symptoms.
However what is clear is the high prolactin afterwards. I think your endo wanted to decrease prolactin with testosterone ?


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« Reply #4297 on: 15/05/2009 07:06:40 »
Yes, the endo hopes T will do that. And I quit Reglan, which often causes hyperprolactinemia. I would like to avoid non-benign medicines such as bromocriptine, which reduce prolactin.

My endo says that prolactin in men is not well understood. Symptoms are low libido and ED. In women, though, prolactin plays a clear role in lactation.

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« Reply #4298 on: 15/05/2009 14:14:06 »
Yes, the endo hopes T will do that. And I quit Reglan, which often causes hyperprolactinemia.
I remember now that testosterone is closely linked with dopamine (which is decreased by prolactin.)
Effects of testosterone on neuronal nitric oxide synthase and tyrosine hydroxylase :
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6SYR-3X05CPV-1M&_user=10&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&view=c&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=ce286cf9b5231b53efb2a828c57b487e



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« Reply #4299 on: 15/05/2009 14:41:19 »
This morning, after a week of being "out-of-pois", I had another NE. I wasn't dressed properly for preventing POIS, partially because I wasn't expecting it, but to be honest it was mostly because I didn't want to worry about POIS while I was out of it. I mean, who does?

I didn't think I would be having one anytime soon because my last emission was only eight days ago. Last time, it took 24 days. But after looking at my calendar (the one I use to record my emissions and ups and downs in energy) I saw that it had been 23 days since my last NE, the one that got me into pois again. I'm beginning to believe that that's the one that really counts.

I was planning on starting fenugreek, I had it coming in the mail actually but it didn't come soon enough. I did, though, have some leftover garlic. About 20 minutes after my NE I went and chopped two cloves of garlic and put it in the microwave (on high, I presume) for 11 seconds. I added some ketchup and crushed it with a spoon, mentally prepared and ate it. My brother and sister, who haven't been within 10 feet of me are complaining of the smell, so I'm going to jog up to a local convenience store, to work the garlic out of my system (good idea?) and buy some mints and gum.

I hope this works, and I also hope I can find a way to deal with the smell. Last time, it took two days for my symptoms to really set in. I'll report anything that I notice, and in 2-3 days, I should have an answer about garlic after an emission, hopefully.