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That CAN'T be true! / Re: What is Learning
« on: 19/01/2025 13:51:51 »
Hi.
I've read through your earlier posts and I'm extremely sorry that you've suffered. I'm also sorry that there's very little a forum like this can do about it.
I am not a psychologist but it is generally thought to be extremely common and perfectly normal to feel some resentment toward your parents for something. It's not a good thing if that becomes too extreme and it's usually best if you can get to the point of thinking that they were just human and probably were doing their best. You seem to be suggesting your parents were overly proud and vocal about their extremely bright son but then it may not have been any better if they had been too much the other way: Not the slightest bit interested and disapproving of whatever you have a talent in.
I think the main advice I must give is just to be very careful not to provide any personal identifying information if you continue with this discussion. For example, don't put the actual name of the school you went to on a public forum like this. So far it looks as if you have been careful enough. After that it has to be a reminder that the forum is unable to offer expert health or well-being advice. Specifcally, I am certainly not qualified to distribute such advice. You should speak to an appropriate professional if you feel there is a need.
Best Wishes.
I've read through your earlier posts and I'm extremely sorry that you've suffered. I'm also sorry that there's very little a forum like this can do about it.
I am not a psychologist but it is generally thought to be extremely common and perfectly normal to feel some resentment toward your parents for something. It's not a good thing if that becomes too extreme and it's usually best if you can get to the point of thinking that they were just human and probably were doing their best. You seem to be suggesting your parents were overly proud and vocal about their extremely bright son but then it may not have been any better if they had been too much the other way: Not the slightest bit interested and disapproving of whatever you have a talent in.
I think the main advice I must give is just to be very careful not to provide any personal identifying information if you continue with this discussion. For example, don't put the actual name of the school you went to on a public forum like this. So far it looks as if you have been careful enough. After that it has to be a reminder that the forum is unable to offer expert health or well-being advice. Specifcally, I am certainly not qualified to distribute such advice. You should speak to an appropriate professional if you feel there is a need.
Best Wishes.