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quote:Originally posted by tweenerDon't try to change someone else. It won't work and you'll both be miserable for the trying. If you can't live with her the way she is, keep shopping.----John - The Eternal Pessimist.
quote:Originally posted by TitanscapeFellows, if you met a young woman and had been wanting to find a wife, that's a life long committed relationship, that you even enter into with a prayer, how faithful do you want her? Or him as it is in ladies' cases.Let's say she or he is the right one but not being brought really well, perhaps because of divorce... She confesses to being almost unable to stop having sexual phantasies and sometimes maturbates. She is honest and then do you tell her to have phantasies of you only when she can't help herself or what if she says she respects you and can't bear to think of you that way?And do you ask her not to look at porn and perve? Titanscape
quote:Originally posted by MirageExactly. People have their own little faults and habits. You can't change that or them. If you could change someone to be your perfect partner then it would be boring. There would be no excitement as nothing would catch you off guard. Having fantasies is normal, it's also something that is very hard to stop, if not impossible. As long as the fantasies stay as fantasies then you shouldn't worry, it's when people try to act them out that trouble can follow. The same with masturbation, it's natural to fiddle, enjoy it, and dare I say it, join in. It's something that can make your sex life even more intense []Everyone has flaws, and to me these flaws attract me to a person. Granted some flaws are harder to accept, but if you really love the person you will accept it and even love them for it.Everyone is unique and thank god
quote:Originally posted by MirageI agree. There is no perfect someone, it's a myth. You can have a lot in common with someone, love lots of things about that someone, but they will never be perfect. The strange thing is, you may well refer to them as being your perfect someone though.To be honest at this point I have no idea if what I have said makes any sense as my brain still hasn't fully rebooted yet. Plus I don't feel very deep tonight []Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps
quote:Originally posted by thayowho then happens to be the King, prince and princesslets keep trying the untried since the birth of science innovations have been like toy but their impacts have rocked the world