[Karen W. (OP)]

That would be wise if he could! Besides no matter how much he loves the sports and other activities his Health and grades need to come first!

[Carolyn]

Exactly.

[Simulated]

Ya its just about skipping and slipping.

Um. Not really.

1.)Musical
2.)Soccer (Twice on monday, Wednesday, Friday)
3.)Science Fair (Going on to county cuz I need the bonus points and I still have to get that done by Tuesday)
4.)County Chior (Got out of school friday then get out this friday, then have practice saturday and the performance sunday)
5.)Religon (Every Wednesday)
6.)Scholastic Bowl (Every Wednesday for the next few weeks)
7.)Envirthon (two times a week for 2 hours each)
8.)Track (coming up)
9.)Fccla (not really that bad, but we accasonly have long meetings)

I know there is more, but all of that added onto

1.)Trying to make my parents happy
2.)Trying to keep everything straight
3.)Having no Study Halls
4.)Getting two c's and the rest are a's b's (i know not bad, but it is for mom and dad)
5.)Trying to do what I want to do
6.)Trying to keep Kayla happy (we havne't been doing good the last few months and yeah i haven't seen her for a month now)

and again of course there is more

do we have to freaking sleep?

[Karen W. (OP)]

 See Ryan we are all in agreement! LOL.. All the mommies are worried bout you Young fellow! Hugs!

[Simulated]

Yeah its way to hard

[Carolyn]

Ryan....you need to talk to your parents.  Tell them how stressed you are and how it's affecting you.  Perhaps they can help you weed out some things or maybe better organize your time.

Sorry....I'm pretty much in agreement with your parents about the c's.  They're big no no's here too.  If you plan on going to college and winning scholarships you have to keep those grades up. 

You're gonna be fine kiddo but go to your parents......they're there to help!  ...and of course feel free to vent here too.

[Simulated]

Yah we talked cuz i freaking went crazy on saturday..and they made me call kayla for the third time in three weeks to say no we can't be together this weekend.

but they like all that extra stuf too..

[Karen W. (OP)]

Ya its just about skipping and slipping.

Um. Not really.

1.)Musical
2.)Soccer (Twice on monday, Wednesday, Friday)
3.)Science Fair (Going on to county cuz I need the bonus points and I still have to get that done by Tuesday)
4.)County Chior (Got out of school friday then get out this friday, then have practice saturday and the performance sunday)
5.)Religon (Every Wednesday)
6.)Scholastic Bowl (Every Wednesday for the next few weeks)
7.)Envirthon (two times a week for 2 hours each)
8.)Track (coming up)
9.)Fccla (not really that bad, but we accasonly have long meetings)

I know there is more, but all of that added onto

1.)Trying to make my parents happy
2.)Trying to keep everything straight
3.)Having no Study Halls
4.)Getting two c's and the rest are a's b's (i know not bad, but it is for mom and dad)
5.)Trying to do what I want to do
6.)Trying to keep Kayla happy (we havne't been doing good the last few months and yeah i haven't seen her for a month now)

and again of course there is more

do we have to freaking sleep?

I am sorry Ryan.. I know there have been worries in your mind. I wish I could help... Don't give up.. These things do happen and you will get through them and I know how badly they hurt... Just hang in there There is light at the end of the tunnel.... It might just be a long tunnel.. hold tight..

Sleep is of the utmost importance if you intend to continue on with this schedule.. That is a lot of stuff going on... seems like overload trying to stay so busy.. which is what many of us do when our hearts are broken and being broken.. That ache is real hard to stop.. Seems one can only somewhat dull it.. it never goes away...

[Simulated]

I just really needa hug and have kayla in my arms just having her there makes everything better. I could be with her right now, but no we have to go to school tommorrow.

its all just about to much. god i sware no one my age does half the sh1t i do.

[Simulated]

atleast pep band over...

[Karen W. (OP)]

Yah we talked cuz i freaking went crazy on saturday..and they made me call kayla for the third time in three weeks to say no we can't be together this weekend.

but they like all that extra stuf too..

You do need to prioritize and talk to them and negotiate the top priorities and see if there are some that can be weeded out like Carolyn said.. thats what I feel to about two many things going on.. Grades are real important.. but some of those things maybe even if they like them.. they might be willing to compromise on knowing the shape you are in.. really talk to them one on one and be honest and respectful... not argumentive .. no blowing of the top!...Try it... They love you.. they want the best for you even if you don't think so..

[Simulated]

Algebra I 77.06 C   2/14/2008

Basic Computers 94.21 A-   2/15/2008

Civics 92.77 A-   2/15/2008

English 9 79.19 C   2/15/2008

High School Chorus II 99.00 A   2/14/2008

Home Economics IB 100.00 A    2/15/2008

HS Band 99.00 A   2/14/2008  

Physical Science 84.64 B-   2/17/2008

Spanish I 101.72 A   2/14/2008

I never did that bad. EVER. The first quatart of the year i got a 3.8 or 3.9
  

[Karen W. (OP)]

I just really needa hug and have kayla in my arms just having her there makes everything better. I could be with her right now, but no we have to go to school tommorrow.

its all just about to much. god i sware no one my age does half the sh1t i do.

I am not Kayla or you folks but here you go....

Big Big HUGS!!!

[Simulated]

Algebra I 92.75 A-   12/19/2007

Civics 96.27 A   1/17/2008

English 9 93.69 A-   12/21/2007

High School Chorus I 99.00 A   12/13/2007

Home Economics IA 95.00 A   12/10/2007

HS Band 100.00 A   2/14/2008

Physical Education 9 100.00 A   1/18/2008

Physical Science 84.74 B-   10/24/2007

Spanish I 95.65 A   1/3/2008
  
First Quatarter

[Carolyn]

Ryan...you take 9 classes???

[Simulated]

Yes. 10 including lunch.

[Carolyn]

The high schools here do 6 classes.  What are your hours in school?

[Simulated]

8ish to 3ish

[Karen W. (OP)]

Well I would say there is room for improvement. Ryan work on your English in here.. punctuation, spelling, grammar etc.. it will start showing up in your classwork.. It will help...

I am afraid I cannot help with the Algebra as I can't even do it! LOL My worst subject!..
But maybe someone in here would know some easy steps to help you get what you struggle with!

[Simulated]

But I mean look at my first quarter grade. A-. Dude that's great. I don't struggle. I'm just to busy. I never complete any of my assignments anymore