[Mirage]

quote:Originally posted by another_someone

quote:Originally posted by Mirage
Could say that we communicated like being on a mobile while driving through a tunnel and losing the signal all the time

Nobody told you you should not be communicating on a mobile at all while driving, much less when driving through tunnels [][}:)]

George

I would have been fine if we had crashed.....no airbag my side....peace and quiet []

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

AAHH your just a babe!!  No wonder you are having so much fun!!! You are too funny , who'd a thunk!!

Karen

[another_someone]

I was thinking about the communication gap in relationships, and it happens all too often.

Dan has said about people writing about how they feel on this forum, and it occurred to me that it is actually sometimes easier to write out your feelings than to talk about them.  Maybe couples should write to each other more often to say the things they may be embarrassed to say, or fearful that they would be interrupted mid flow, and only have half said what they wanted to say.

Writing things out can give you the space to properly think out what it is you want to say, put it down, and even alter it, before blurting out the wrong thing.

George

[Karen W.]

OH don't think like that bad omens, LOL

Karen

[Carolyn]

George - you are so right.  I can't tell you how many times I've thought of this very thing.  It would definately cut down on my "things I regret" list.  

Carolyn

[Mirage]

quote:Originally posted by Karen W.

AAHH your just a babe!!  No wonder you are having so much fun!!! You are too funny , who'd a thunk!!

Karen

Why thank you.

I may well be young but I feel that my mind has aged at an incredible rate. I became a security guard near the end of my teens and from all the responsibility I was given came things that I had to learn to understand. There are some things that have happened that I can't talk about, can't bring myself to do so. I have seen many horrors of working in a notorious area, things that have left me in some sense of shock for quite sometime. Once you leave any form of school life you're never quite prepared for the things that you will encounter or have to deal with. On a daily basis you can be left feeling stressed, sad, and shock from whatever befell you that day. There are good days, but hey, that's life, always some new surprise for you.

George, I find it easier to write how I feel, there is only really one person who I can talk to and share a lot of secrets with. My best mate Jon has been my rock through the years, love him to bits.
I totally agree with you though, writing does give you the space you need. That's why I love to write.

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

Your right george about righting I have tried for 25 years to get my husband to write down what he feels, the closest he has ever come was while driving long haul across the country, His heart was with me in his emails. Not since what a shame. I wish things were different but sometimes things happen for the best even when they feel like the worst!!

 DAn I understand where you are comming from and my young life was wrought with pain shock and humiliation and I have the same release in writing. I try not to share the painful writing as it is just for myself. Choose better to write of love happiness and good things so as not to dwell on the bad!!! You are fortunate to have such a friend and confident!

Karen

[Mirage]

I do prefer to write more about love rather than pain but the painful memories never fade, and for me I need them. It helps me through whatever painful moment could be next. I use a lot of my experiences to learn how to better myself and to be a better person all round.

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

Yep me too. Her I am wrote you that last post and now I am crying , see what I mean, realizations are tough sometimes you know!!

Karen

[Mirage]

Aww don't cry hun [:X]

If you need something to make you laugh have a look at me dressed up as Fred Flintstone in the what do you look like thread.

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

Yeah I saw that very cute! Where was wilma? Did not see her there!
 No worries I cry all the time, teary thing I am especilly lately!

Karen

[Mirage]

Wilma was there, but not for long. She had to be in work early the next day.

I can get a little misty but haven't been able to cry since a girl broke my heart

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

I am so sorry I could loan you some tears as my robe is soaked. I am a basket case I guess , tried to not let em out but like certain parts of my anatomy, they could not be reined in!! Waterfall much , you got any barrels we could climb in and go for  a ride.... Look out niagra falls!! Here I come!LOL

Karen

[Mirage]

You nutter [] although Niagra Falls does sound like fun.



Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

Always wanted to go there. When I was a kid it was the hot spot for honeymooning! So Beautiful! I don't know how I would do as I can't swim never could tried to drown several times, but fortuneately for me was unsuccessful! LOL

Karen

[Mirage]

I've always loved swimming. I used to be in the best at school but then a girl came along and beat me. I didn't like her very much, I first learnt about competition at that point, when I was 10 []

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

Do girls whipping your butt bug you! Huh LOL You are funny indeed... I am a girl of many talents, but swimming aint one of them!

Karen

[Mirage]

I was only whipped a couple of times, it was ok, but can hurt if not done right or done too hard [B)] []

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps

[Karen W.]

yeah, I hear you! works both ways!

Karen

[Mirage]

Well that's just kinky

Some days it's not even worth knawing at the straps