[Karen W. (OP)]

Good boy it sounds like a rough area... do be careful as I am sure you are!

Karen

[Mirage]

Aww, I'm ok hun, been working the same area for over 4 years now, 5 in november [:0]

I've seen some really nasty things and have put up with a lot of bad characters, but it's a job and can take it's toll, mainly the reason why I'm looking for a new job []

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Flying Monkey Slayer says:

Remember boys, flies spread disease, so keep your closed

[moonfire]

Hmmm, maybe try a new form of weapon on those bad boys..hehe  verbalize them down with real cut forming words...talk about their bodyparts and dehumanize them to mud...or you could sing and dance for them...until they leave and quit bothering you...when you are finished with the song and dance...stick your finger up close to your lips and blow on it like a gun smoking!

"Lo" Loretta

[Mirage]

I don't actually go in for the kill. The best way to deal with a situation is to talk it through. Too many times I have seen a guard get very aggressive and for no reason, it just caused more problems and the other guy getting aggressive. Now the best way is to talk to the person like you would with anyone else. Only raise your voice if you have to, otherwise just keep it friendly like.....well that's what I do anyway

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Flying Monkey Slayer says:

Remember boys, flies spread disease, so keep your closed

[Karen W. (OP)]

I think that is wise, Then you can feed them some of your home made something and they'll never return!!!! right! LOL Just kidding Dan But you must be real careful and very diplomatic in a gaurd situation as anything could happen.. I have many male friends over the years who chose that carreer!

Karen

[Mirage]

Definitely

To be honest I see it that you need to have a cool head, you can make matters worse if you are aggressive. I've come across a lot of unsavoury characters. One that really got my heart pumping was this guy who was high on something. He could hardly move but sometimes they do surprise you. I had been trying to move this guy on for a while, kept on going out and asking him to move on, then I told him again and said that I would give him a few minutes to get himself sorted. He started to gather up his belongings while I stood there, and then he pulled out a needle, this made my heart jump and so I moved back a bit slowly. He noticed this and said don't worry mate, I'm not going to use it on you. Although I didn't really expect that he would there was always the chance that he would in my mind.
In the end though he was a pretty cool guy, someone who has probably lost everything they had and turned to drugs, or drugs could have been the reason. I never judge them, I don't know what they have been through, so that's why I will always remain friendly to them unless they turn aggressive first.

I have to look out for the staff, so I can't have an aggressive person causing trouble. It's just the way things go I guess

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Flying Monkey Slayer says:

Remember boys, flies spread disease, so keep your closed

[Karen W. (OP)]

I aaagree with level heads and calm non agressive personality, Problem solvers conflict managers... Yes! Agressive behavior only provokes, does not disarm....or make at ease!!Well I am going to be about ten minutes going home then I will be back on!

Karen

[neilep]

If I had the perfect get away...I might be tempted to steal a hot dog from a hot dog vendor !

Men are the same as women, just inside out !

[moonfire]

LOL Okay, I am thinking much betta now...Okay, I have to use my most diplomatic voice too Dan..it is the only way of survival!  LOL

"Lo" Loretta

[Karen W. (OP)]

quote:Originally posted by neilep

If I had the perfect get away...I might be tempted to steal a hot dog from a hot dog vendor !

Men are the same as women, just inside out !

Very witty Sir Neil! I think you are very funny! I did not think about how I phrased that when I posted it!! I don't like hot dogs enough to ever want to get away with one!

Karen

[Hadrian]

ah.... A CBR900RR  on an open road like the back side of the Isle of Man..... every moment is in the moment the is no time for the past of future on this beast  [^][^][^]

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.

[Karen W. (OP)]

Is that a motor cycle or dirt bike?  Sounds like you had fun!!

Karen

[Hadrian]

quote:Originally posted by Karen W.

Is that a motor cycle or dirt bike?  Sounds like you had fun!!

Karen

IS THAT A MOTOR CYCLE.............. I I I cant I cant  [:p]

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.

[Hadrian]

Behold ye all and weep The Fireblade  CBR900RR [][][]



What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.

[Karen W. (OP)]

My hubby LOves motorcycles... he would like one..

Karen

[Hadrian]

He obviously got good tastes in ladies and bikes

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.

[Karen W. (OP)]

My hubby agrees with where I should go visit and says that I should wait and go during the T. T. The tourist trophy!  Have you ever been... He said it is great!!Husband says next time he takes a drink he'll make a toast to Joey Dunlap!

Karen

[Karen W. (OP)]

Thanks so much for the beautiful comment Hadrian, I think you are a terrific guy Your wife is a lucky women! Your son a lucky boy! You are very sweet!

Karen

[neilep]

quote:Originally posted by Hadrian

Behold ye all and weep The Fireblade  CBR900RR [][][]



What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.

YOu know it...I know it...we all know it...

this pisses all over the fireblade and no mistake !! []



Men are the same as women, just inside out !

[Karen W. (OP)]

That is very cool...very cool! Pretty with stlye!

Karen