[Karen W. (OP)]

HERE HERE!!! Who Has the Camera when He comes in I'll pull the kilt you click the picture!!! We will all win!!! And I bet sheepie will dance Well!! LOL We wuv you whittle sheepy!LOL LOL!

[Mirage]

It's all about BARRY WHITE THE SEX GOD!!!!!.....RIP Oh might Barry White  [:-'(]

Slow music is grand, dancing that little bit closer, dancing cheek to cheek (facial cheeks that is Neil  [] ) , the mood, the lighting, the sense that you are the only two people in the world, the romance, the heat, the energy, the feeling and feelings, the bond, the laughs, the tears, the good and the bad, not really the ugly, being there with each other for each other, the magic, the moment, the future...........well that's just me though, don't know if it is the same for anyone else.

*le sigh*...Dan !!....will woo dance with me ?..*swoon*

I thought you'd never ask  [:I]

Plus I think we should remake the pottery scene from Ghost, if you're in HIGH enough SPIRITS to do so  []

[Mirage]

Yeah, I am with you Karen....a man in a Kilt is pretty darn sexy.....

I would like to marry a Scottish girl so that I can wear a kilt.........who says it's only girls who dream about their weddings

[Karen W. (OP)]

LOL Good afternoon My Friend! How are you....

[Mirage]

I'm good thank you darling. How are you this fine morning?

[Karen W. (OP)]

I am congested and feel like uggly toad squished under someones shoe with all of the goo squished out on the ground LOL! My face feels swollen sinuses are terrible , but aside from all that rot, I feel pretty darn good... Not sick to my stomach, or the other way just conjested. Mentally better this morning then yesterday not quite so emotional... YAYYYYYYYY! Lets not forgwet that I am a sap anyways, so emotions are part of the package so if one doesn't like emotions, then one needs to look for a new package!! LOL LOL!

Really I am ok! I am glad your repair fellow fixed things this morning and you are running smoothly today!! YAYYYYYYYY!

[Mirage]

Awwww hun, that's not nice. I hope you feel better soon  [:X]

I am congested and feel like uggly toad squished under someones shoe with all of the goo squished out on the ground LOL!

And eeeewwwwwwwwwwwww by the way  []

[Karen W. (OP)]

I am fine ... LOL Have you not ever felt like that?? It is ewwwwwwe by the way! LOL Thanks I will be fine.. this is good therapy not battling and chasing kids and getting well. Just hanging out at home!!

Carolyn suggested something I will try if I can manage to go to town. I have to drive to town though to get it... I don't want to go to town!

[Mirage]

Sorry, eeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww..........e then  []

Felt something similar. The worst was my throat, that hurt quite a lot, but it gave me an excuse to eat loads of ice cream  []

[Karen W. (OP)]

YEAH it tends to numb it up pretty good. My throat is not hurting this morning, yesterday yes but not this morning... I have been using my airborn alot... My ears seem to be plugging and popping alot as if I was traveling at high elevations though!

[Mirage]

I hate it and love it when my jaw clicks and my ear pops at the same time, it's like a sudden realease and I can carry on eating  []

[Karen W. (OP)]

IT feels weird like I am in a tunnel with ear plugs on and suddenly they are pulled out and low and behgold the world becomes audible again!

[Mirage]

My ears sometimes do that, so I just hold my nose and mouth shout and blow. Clears them up for a bit.......usually

[Karen W. (OP)]

Well Thats cool. Blowing my nose seems to help also! Jeesh Dan Lets talk about something else I don't want to be sick!!!! LOL Where did you go... What kind of fire did you put out!!.. I put a real one out yesterday in my kitchen WOO WHOO!!

Do you make rounds on the hour or half at work? What ki8nd of schedule are you on? If you don't mind me asking?

[Mirage]

I don't actually do anything. I can't really leave the desk so I just sit here on my behind  []

I only work Monday to Friday so it's nice having the weekends free, very nice indeed  []

[Karen W. (OP)]

Well You must have monitors that help you with security surveillance. My son Youngest Nathan just quit his Job at the t6ire shop and got a job doing security at the Blue Lake Casino!! He is jazzed a $1 more an hour for start to go up as he is there longer! so I guess he will make $9.00 an hour instead of $8.00 ! He is excited. Heaven forbid anyone cause him any grief , me boy is not a very big man.. He is very small in stature. I know he will be fine, but it still worries me... Some of those older men drunks can get pretty belligerent!

[Mirage]

Yeah, I've got a cctv monitor right next to me, which comes in handy  []

But that's what mothers do, they worry. My mum still worries about me doing security and it's already been over 5 years now  []
The secret is to keep people in a good mood, especially when they are drunk.

[Karen W. (OP)]

I'll keep that in mind and tell Nathan.. He is so small.. But I can't tell him that! He knows he's a little guy.. But I try not to say much to him about it he is a grown young man and I have confidence he will be able to handle the job!! Right Daniel? Real confidence, I am trying!

[Mirage]

Nothing will ever stop my mum talking about it. She absolutely freaked when there was a possibility of me moving to a notorious area. Was quite good fun trying to persuade her that the area was ok  []

Nathan just has to be more observant when he first starts, some things you're only going to be able to learn through experience. But if he is observant to begin with it could make all the difference. In most situations the best way to deal with a drunk is to keep enough distance away, just in case he swings you have space and time to move block etc, but also not too much space that he can move around in. Do not try to react to whatever comes out of their mouths, even if it seems personal. People will often insult a security guard simply because of his job. The amount of swear words and insult you can hear is amazing, but then can also be amusing because there will always be a point where someone has said that to you before. Don't let it get to you. Try and remain calm and polite. If you can appear friendly to the person you need to deal with it can help a lot. It can sometimes seem like a buddy situation, like in a way you two become mates. But always stay alert. Keep your temper in check, and try not to retaliate with abusive language as this can make things a lot worse. But don't be too lenient with them, you don't want them thinking that you are a push over. It's a fine line between all of it, be nice but not too nice. It comes with time, but sometimes it is hard to see it.

[Karen W. (OP)]

Thanks Daniel.. I will give him your advice.. Nice THanks ever so much!!