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Quote from: desperate man on 06/08/2014 12:53:40http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-vicious-cycle-of-adult-add-shame-and-compulsive-sexuality/000520that is me in a nutshell. haven't been porn surfing for some years now but i think it has alternated my mind significantly, never seen prostitutes thank god. i think my tinnitus boosted my problems significantly.my parents have never really acknowledged my talents, thats really a shame, they also made me isolated as a young adult.
Hello peoples.I have returned with a small bit of useful info.I have found a new regiment thats really helped me stave off unwanted nocturnal emissions.I consume one Monster Energy Java drink a day. Thats it. Now how does this work? Not sure why this particular energy drink is so potent, but it seems to noticeably "desensitize" one as well as lower the sexual urge. I used to use dream control and take a muscle relaxer etc etc. For whatever reason though drinkin one of those Monster Java energy drinks a day has made avoiding NE's so much easier. Im not gonna even begin to dissect the reason, I just know that it works fairly well. Also relieves minor aches and pains, this particular brand of energy drink, so might be helpful for those who have O'ed as well? Anyways, fight the good fight. Im out. Peace.
johanstefansson - I cant see what difference having sex with a prostitute verses sex with a girl friend/wife would make in terms of pois.
Quote from: acronym on 16/08/2014 03:00:20johanstefansson - I cant see what difference having sex with a prostitute verses sex with a girl friend/wife would make in terms of pois.prostitution is illegal where i live.and of course there is a major safety difference.what i meant was that my sex addiction at least did not make me cross over that line.
LAPOISSE2I generally agree with your theory. I developed anxiety symptoms 30 years ago and I think POIS soon followed (rather than vice-versa). I too have been improving with both my anxiety and POIS - if all feels miraculous. Also looking into Tantric practices helps me too. I am a creative and am also known for over-thinking everything also I can be ruthlessly analytical - this makes my anxiety worse - I just need to chill. But for this reason I cannot kid myself that any supplements work (I do take some to assist with the anxiety) I posted the below a few months ago - I feel this echoes where I am at still:I have had POIS for many years - over 30 of them in fact. It has been very severe and debilitating. I am now 50, so have suffered terribly for most of my adult life. I have generally applied the theory that this is partly linked to general anxiety (I do suffer) with the 'O' pushing the body beyond acceptable limits leading to a melt-down. This is a theory supported in the UK by Dr Goldmeier at Jefferiss Wing, St Mary's Hospital in London. He has seen a few POIS sufferers and he has commented that they tended to exhibit some form of general anxiety.My wife decided to divorce me (not because of POIS) at the start of the year. This by chance led to meeting an old girlfriend from my youth. It has been the most wonderful experience for me. I have been panicking about POIS and thinking it will end up wrecking everything. But it has all gone unexpectedly very well. I know this may sound dramatic - but after a few weeks I can safely say I am walking around feeling like a miracle has occurred, POIS is all but gone. I do get some symptoms on day 2, Day 1 is fine. But by day 3 I just have some very low level nausea and mild headache - but I only notice these if I really take the time to think about it. I take manganese, zinc and st johns wort - have done so for about 12 month plus now. They may be helping to a degree. I had been worried about being a bit too quick to 'O' in my new relationship so have gone into what I can only describe as a continual solo self-control regime (morning and night). I would stimulate myself to the point of 'O' but hold back and do a lot of relaxation work at the same time - deep breathing - focusing my mind - but never allowing an 'O' then carry on and repeat for as long as I could hold out but still no 'O'. Then cease. It does means spending day after day feeling almost on edge of 'O' - which is kind of naughty fun. But something has obviously been happening in my state of constant desire and arousal that has caused my POIS after 'O' to recede. I have no idea if my body chemistry is changed in my current state - but all I know is my world has changed in a way I could never have imagined. I know little more than this but if I can answer any specific questions I will try to give more detail.