[trevorjohnson32 (OP)]

If a particle of matter was like a strongman, and when its gravity field touched another's gravity field, it was like two strongmen pulling the rope of the the other strongman in a tug of war. And they pull on each other till they collide and release energy, what is the sweat of the strongman that is burned when tugging? Is this energy that converts to momentum of the strong man a loss of energy to the strongman? I think the initial  sweat of the strongman comes from when two gravity fields touch, the atomic nucleus pit's constant pressure on space gets stronger where they are touching, and the strongman lets out steam at this point and is naturally pulled in the direction of the second strongman.
In space the denser the space medium the less pressure you will have, so where two gravity fields touch and become denser they are actually letting out pressure by becoming denser. Hence the attractive force of gravity.

[trevorjohnson32 (OP)]

I think the denser space is the more wiggle room and anti pressure it has. The point where two gravity fields tocuh causes a density in space and simultaneously causes that region to be of less pressure, so the point where two gravity fields touch is a spot that releases pressure and draws the two objects together.