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therefore hubby is less likely to feel compelled to murder them. 
I did once read that one effect of the female orgasm was that is (somehow) aided the sperms travel towards the egg. Not sure how though, or if that is correct.
O.k Female orgasm.....I have a completely new theory on this.O.k so reading the site given by Karen, stated only 25% of women orgasm regularly. I have noticed that some women urineate at the moment of orgasm. Just like the discussion of sex itself, that area is not really discussed. I was discussing the fact that some women urinate at the moment of orgasm with a friend, she stated that "we learn to control that" (the only reason she feels compelled to stop herself urinating is, that it's a social sigma to do so, a stigma that pushes women to try not to urineate at the moment of orgasm). Most women go to the toilet before they engage in sex to prevent that eventuality (the embarrassment).But, what if women are meant to urinate at the moment of orgasm? From an evolutionary point of view, what if the female 'marked' the male they had just copulated with. That marking would then show the other females that that male had been 'claimed'.As a theory, it is a reversal of male domination, but can we be fully sure that the males always dominated early human societies?If early human societies were female dominated, then urination could have been used by the alpha-female as a way to mark her male/s. Or it could have been tribal, so the females from another tribe would be put off 'by the marking', which would ensure that the males didn't stray to other female group/s; therefore guaranteeing that the males stayed to assist their own group (generally males stay to protect their genes, but if a male is allowed to stray he could end up with more children in another group and then leave his first group), 'marking' prevents that.Noone has suggested it, it could be complete rubbish, but then having no reason for the orgasm is hardly a reasonable theory in my opinion. So I suggest that the female orgasm originated as a way for the females to try and control the males within their social group. If true, it would mean that women are meant to spray when they orgasm, and could mean that not allowing themselves to, stops them from climaxing. Going to need research. If true, many won't like it(sorry).Theory 22.
Interesting theory! But I must admit to being naive in this department as I have enjoyed sex and orgasm And I love it, but NEVER EVER had the urge to urinate during climax, or any other time during that love making period! I also have never spoken to another women who has..
Sorry SOYEAH, I just couldn't help myself! LOL! It is a thought that I have never had.. so I find it rather funny!
I have never actually come across it, but I have heard urination as being the explanation for what is regarded as female ejaculation (an involuntary reaction rather than a deliberate act).
Quote from: Karen W. on 14/10/2007 08:19:21Interesting theory! But I must admit to being naive in this department as I have enjoyed sex and orgasm And I love it, but NEVER EVER had the urge to urinate during climax, or any other time during that love making period! I also have never spoken to another women who has..Really? You never needed to go to the toilet before sex? I have spoken to a few women who have said it happens. If that is what the orgasm was used for originally, it would not be the same now anyway; we have moved on since then. There has to be a reason why only 25% of women orgasm regularly, if 'marking' was used to start with, it probably wasn't very effective, and socially neither side like it.Quote from: Karen W. on 14/10/2007 08:19:21Sorry SOYEAH, I just couldn't help myself! LOL! It is a thought that I have never had.. so I find it rather funny!I kinda find it funny too. Quote from: another_someone on 14/10/2007 12:16:20I have never actually come across it, but I have heard urination as being the explanation for what is regarded as female ejaculation (an involuntary reaction rather than a deliberate act).Well, it can as my friend said, be controlled, so it's not an involuntary act or rather some women can stop themselves, although others can't. This does relate though, we still don't know why women orgasm, and female ejaculation is a part of that. If you had a group of females they would all be receptive at the same time, so could female ejaculation somehow have put off other females? Could it have worked to guarantee that the male in question would only sleep with the same female until the smell left him? That would mean that the male would stay with that female for longer, as she would be the only one that was receptive to him. That could give them more time to bond or at least help the female to gain a child from a chosen male.The female orgasm comes at the end of intercourse, after the male has succeeded, so it could work to assist the sperm, or give the male and female more pleasure and help with bonding, both of those theories are disputed, I'm suggesting that it worked to trap the male, by putting off other females, just long enough that the female while receptive got as much of her chosen males attention as possible, which increases her chances of pregnancy and helps the male bond with her. Trouble is not many people would like the idea, even if it was proven true. Which ever way you go, all areas of the female orgasm have to be looked into.
I have found that orgasm can come at the beginning very easily as well as in the middle and as well as the end with the same pleasure throughout.
I don't know about bonding but I believe it gives a man more pleasure to be able to bring about this pleasure for a women as well as himself and perhaps help aid his ego a bit also! The more she can climax the better and more viril he may feel, as well he should! LOL!
Thats not to mention in my experience Orgasm before during and after the ones before or at the start stimulate muscle contractions pulling the male inward to the female and thus tightening her muscles as they contract around her partner. improving I would think the pleasure he sustains during the the period of love making. I also think the in between Orgasms also help to aid when perhaps the male has waited longer then desired and thus this may stimulate him again and encourage the end pleasure for him!
I have a question.. Perhaps way off base. but perhaps the womens orgasm helps to boost the male ego enough to boost or increase testosterone production making him more potent or able to produce more sperm to impregnate his partner thus improving the chances for his seed to reach the lovely destination of miraculous point of fertilization of the egg!! What do you think? Is that plausible?
LOL LOL!!! Thats funny!.. Now..Climax is definitely great and helpful in that it aides me to sleep, but like I said the orgasms could not hurt the male in between, or am I mistaken and you men do not receive pleasure from extra pressure received from the womans orgasm during intercourse..?
Neily thats mean!! LOL! I don't know whats written on mine, but I suspect it has A BIG NEON SIGN that reads, "CLOSED GOING OUT OF BUSINESS!" lol lol!
Why is that that most men can't tell the woman has climaxed.. is that right???It seems like it would be so obvious with all the muscle contractions and such.. Are those just not strong enough for the male to feel, or is it just a female thing, like contractions during childbirth, my husband could not feel them with his hand on my tummy but boy oh boy could I! Does it work similar to that with orgasm and muscle tightening.. would I be the only person experiencing that pleasure?? I never thought the MAN would not feel it!
that's the right word. cervix...