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I'm actually not sure how she meant. I would imagine nauseous, but I actually haven't asked her to elaborate. I'll ask.Oh and I love your sig =P
Hi..my guess being a women, would be that her tummy was involved..between excitemnt and nervous antcipation..that can really bring on some very nervous tummy problems as well a a little nausea ....espeaciallybeing so nervous..that tends to make one feel icky....knowing yor ages would help, but not knowing I would say the younger she is the mor likely that these felings could be very confusing to her... I would think between aticipation and the fear that may be there from a new experience can be nerve racking.i would just talk about it and make sure she is emotionally ready also...it does sound like a nervous stomach......take care....make sure its what she wants...if she is not sure of what she was feeling she may not be ready for moving on past the heavy petting stage. Make sure you follow her wishes and clues....Its good you are concerned for her.. she may or may not be ready.It is a big step and you want to make sure that it i a good one for her.
She's quick to stop me if she's uncomfortable with anything (I made her promise to stop me in that event anyway). But it sounds like as good an explanation as any. Thanks
Your Welcome, and I would say if as Sim points out if you are both 15 and under that this is way too early for her to even know the consequences well enough to understand what she would be doing... and It would be way better to wait until you are both old enough to handle all of the responsibilities of a That a sexual relationship entails, as it is far more then just sex or primordial erges!I mean physical as well as mental responsibilities... to which there are so very many!There is the constant possibility of pregnancy and fatherhood and financial responsibilities emotional aspects as well. You guys have your whole life ahead of you.... Its time to be young and do the things kids love to do.. Give yourself time to be kids.. If you are 15 then I am assuming you are both close in age.... You should wait.. a big clue to you that she is not ready was the fact that she felt uneasy and kind of bad afterwards..She's young enough that she does not even understand her own bodily feelings let alone look past the simple act of love making or heavy petting... Maybe the both of you could seek some good advice through a counselor .. maybe thru planned parenthood they may be able to advise you....Do you have any programs like that in Canada?Thanks Ryan..
actually I just turned 15. Yeah getting an STD pretty much sucks.
oh I get it. Thanks =D
Quote from: RobotGymnast on 21/03/2008 22:34:39actually I just turned 15. Yeah getting an STD pretty much sucks.yeah well i won't be 15 til september. so. and yeah not even that just the possiblity of having a kid. i mean my life is hard enough right now as it is.
That's the thing for me, BenV, I DON'T mature. I've peaked. I know I'm just as mature at 15 as I was at 12 (I can't remember any further back =P). More experienced, more educated, and I have definitely changed psychologically (thanks to myself.. who needs a psychiatrist ?), but I have not matured. I am as mature as every adult I know, I have philosophical discussions with adults, discuss science and sex, and can argue any topic and take viewpoints on anything with an adult (hell, I'm more mature than my father >_>). Sure I can be immature at times, but that won't change.. that just depends on who I'm talking to.
Quote from: RobotGymnast on 21/03/2008 19:33:09That's the thing for me, BenV, I DON'T mature. I've peaked. I know I'm just as mature at 15 as I was at 12 (I can't remember any further back =P). More experienced, more educated, and I have definitely changed psychologically (thanks to myself.. who needs a psychiatrist ?), but I have not matured. I am as mature as every adult I know, I have philosophical discussions with adults, discuss science and sex, and can argue any topic and take viewpoints on anything with an adult (hell, I'm more mature than my father >_>). Sure I can be immature at times, but that won't change.. that just depends on who I'm talking to.You may regret making those comments. I was the same, at 15 (certainly 16) I thought I had peaked, and couldn't possibly get more mature. Likewise, I could hold an intelligent discussion on almost anything with anyone, and could hold my own against adults. At 18 I realised I was wrong, and thought I was now fully mature at 18. At 22 I realised I was wrong again, and have now stopped assuming that I'm mature.
Yeah. That's what I was thinking at age 13 or 12. Cuz anyone I meet, mostly older people, I could just sit there and talk about the weather and politics and all that other "mature" stuff. The only thing I think I'm missing is a house of my own, a job, and i still have my coffee virginity But even though I ain't like normal kids my age and go out and have sex, get drunk, and get high everytime they have the oppurtiunity. I am still immature in the littlest of things of course.
Yeah I defiently try and be the best little kid there can be.