[Karen W.]

Yes I agree with that. A lot of women are attracted by that as are men to women built like Godesses..but then that would depend on what you deem to be a Godess! LOL

[Ben6789]

Meh, too many people in my school depend on looks in a relationship. Maybe that's why i don't have a g/f...

Doesn't matter. I prefer personality, personally.

Oooh, an alliteration.

[Karen W.]

People are attracted by different things..

I may be initially attracted by mind eyes etc, but I can also appreciate the broad shoulders and strong arms and such also.. it is just not what I would use to find my perfect someone if I were looking which I am not!!!

[Karen W.]

Meh, too many people in my school depend on looks in a relationship. Maybe that's why i don't have a g/f...

Doesn't matter. I prefer personality, personally.

Oooh, an alliteration.

Good for you!! Wise decision.. The right person/girl will come along one day!

[Ben6789]

What if i don't want a girl?

Or guy, mine you.

[elegantlywasted]

What I am speaking of is not a conscience decision as to what we find attractive!!! It is simply something that is ingrained in us.

We don't sit on a patio somewhere watching hotties walk by saying "oooh look at the shoulders on that one, I bet he could kill me a boar and build me a rockin' shelter."

And men, well I think, don't sit on that same patio watching the ladies saying, Wow!! Those are some child rearing hips.

It's a Darwinian sort of thing. Of course with all evolution comes an evolution in ideals. Studies have shown that younger women (20-40) prefer a more feminine physique on a man, while older women (40+) prefer a more rugged manly look (broad shoulders, strong jaw).

Call me crazy but I would take George Clooney over Brad Pitt any day!!

[jolly]

Actually no, a textbook written by a woman did. It is the same logic behind men looking for a woman who can bear him lots of children, and have ease doing it (ie. broad hips)

And again back to the six packs. If we are discussing what women inherently find attractive, a six pack is not one of them.

Well I do not think that women find anything inherently attractive.... maybe winkies.lol

But really I mean if your gay? what women has a winkie? or broad shoulders and good hunting skills?

Whats your field elegantlywasted?

Actually no, a textbook written by a woman did.

I'm sure a man told her!!!!

[Karen W.]

What if i don't want a girl?

Or guy, mine you.

Is there an alternative I don't know about, besides a girl and a guy and celibacy?

 You are Ultimately the only one who knows your own sexual orientation, that is not for anyone else to pass judgement on.. to each his own. Love is love no matter what your orientation.

[elegantlywasted]

Whats your field elegantlywasted?

I am a student.

As for homosexuality, scientifically speaking, it is still a bit of an anomoly. Kinsey did some great research in the field but did not focus on why people did or were attracted to what they were attracted to.

But really I mean if your gay? what women has a winkie? or broad shoulders and good hunting skills?

My friends and I were discussing this yesterday. A friend of ours, a lesbian, introduced one of us to her new girlfriend. And this new girlfriend looked very masculine. Excuse my crudeness but she was butch. This raised the question, why be a lesbian if you are still attracted to a masculine physique?

[jolly]

Well shes your friend ask her!

"I am a student"- of what if you dont mind telling us?

[elegantlywasted]

I have taken a year of Pre-Health sciences, which is Pre-Med for all of you non Canadians. Within that year I studied human sexuality, human growth and development, as well as anatomy and physiology. I am currently enrolled in a photography and film studies program.

[Ben6789]

Hey, man my connections could help out on your date if you ask her out!

[jolly]

Well Rosy's not interested- What do you think wasted Do you like line dancing?

[elegantlywasted]

Is that question directed at me?

[Karen W.]

I believe it was!!! LOL

[elegantlywasted]

Well, I thought we were discussing what people find physically attractive, but yes I do like line dancing.

[jolly]

Really?

Do you also like cheese, go karting and shooting cats?

[elegantlywasted]

Umm no, yes, and definalty not...as for linedancing yes, my friends and I occasionally take lessons on wednesdays, and thursday night is usually spent at a local country bar.

[jolly]

Well it's 2 out of four. I mean Rosy was terrible but you maybe the one for me []

I think you'll like me I look like Big Foot!

[jolly]

Ele Please relax I am Joking!