Attraction in relation to appearance

paul.fr · « **Reply #80 on:** 12/05/2007 03:22:49 »

Quote from: another_someone on 12/05/2007 03:14:29

This, to be honest, given what you said about food and visual appeal, does not surprise me at all. You are clearly strongly affected by visual appeal.

Too a tee, to such an extent that last year i redecorated my lounge 5 times. Not that it was grotty, i just did not like it once it was finished.

Quote from: another_someone on 12/05/2007 03:14:29

But, to be fair, I find that the things that attract me to a woman when I first meet her will bore me by the time I get to know her - by then, I had better be able to find something more to hold my interest.

This is true, when looks are important.

Quote from: another_someone on 12/05/2007 03:14:29

I also sometimes am actually wary of girls who are too attractive - I often take the view that if they are that good looking they have never really had to work at a relationship, or at much else, because they will just have men falling over themselves to do everything for her. That kind of woman really is someone I would rather stay away from.

There is a fine line there, i think those that are too attractive have more invested in themselves to realy need anyone else. There are also the most shallow, and ones you get bored with quicker.

Karen W. · « **Reply #81 on:** 12/05/2007 03:24:00 »

LOL Ohhh I must be the girl for you George! LOL LOL.. Just teasing.. I have found this conversation quite interesting to say the least! LOL

That sounds like me George .. Always redoing everything till I have it the way I like it! LOL

kdlynn · « **Reply #82 on:** 12/05/2007 03:24:30 »

although nobody should listen to me. i'm single too. lol

Karen W. · « **Reply #83 on:** 12/05/2007 03:25:59 »

You have some very nice ideas and lovely qualities young lady!

kdlynn · « **Reply #84 on:** 12/05/2007 03:26:52 »

and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!

kdlynn · « **Reply #85 on:** 12/05/2007 03:28:25 »

thanks karen... now find a nice, attractive mid to late twenties or early thirties-ish guy and tell him that for me!

paul.fr · « **Reply #86 on:** 12/05/2007 03:29:01 »

Quote from: kdlynn on 12/05/2007 03:26:52

and paul, next time you feel like decorating please feel free to make a quick trip across the ocean and stop by. i don't have time to figure out what i want to do in here!

I truely detest decorating, but i just can't pick the right colours! So, i just start all over again.

kdlynn · « **Reply #87 on:** 12/05/2007 03:30:50 »

remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol

kdlynn · « **Reply #88 on:** 12/05/2007 03:31:55 »

ok i can do colors... i'm good with colors. i just can't find stuff! together we might get it right!

paul.fr · « **Reply #89 on:** 12/05/2007 03:32:35 »

Quote from: kdlynn on 12/05/2007 03:30:50

remind me sunday when i get my camera back to send you a picture to show them, too. i'm actually pretty cute too! lol

are you talking to me?.....guessed not, just hoping for a picture!

kdlynn · « **Reply #90 on:** 12/05/2007 03:33:15 »

that sounded conceited. i'm not. but i just... well i know i'm attractive. lol. it's the other areas i have low self esteem in

kdlynn · « **Reply #91 on:** 12/05/2007 03:34:16 »

i was talking to karen, but maybe i'll just post it on the pictures of ourselves thingy.

Karen W. · « **Reply #92 on:** 12/05/2007 03:38:03 »

I would love to see your Pictures! LOL

jolly · « **Reply #93 on:** 12/05/2007 04:56:51 »

Quote from: another_someone on 12/05/2007 02:59:38

Quote from: kdlynn on 12/05/2007 02:47:28
i think you just have to follow your intuition when you are looking for someone. whether we know it or not, we all know what we want!

Maybe that is why I have remained single - I never trust my instincts - and the few occasions I have followed them, I found them seriously wanting in judgement.

Blame the beer....

Quote from: paul.fr on 12/05/2007 03:09:25

Quote from: kdlynn on 12/05/2007 03:06:59
but wouldn't standing out in a crowd be a personality thing?

No. if she is just stood there, on your arm how would anyone know her personality? They would only know that she looked good! []

Sounds like you want a virgina that washes plates!

Paul: Yeah, that is what I want!

...lol

and as far as Danny Devito go's im sure he was in the 100 fit blokes list somewhere.... bet kdlynn likes him!

kdlynn · « **Reply #94 on:** 12/05/2007 05:09:17 »

i really am going to sleep after this, but i don't even know who danny devito is

Karen W. · « **Reply #95 on:** 12/05/2007 05:14:12 »

Night Kadie..Sleep well!

jolly · « **Reply #96 on:** 12/05/2007 05:17:35 »

Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Karen W. · « **Reply #97 on:** 12/05/2007 06:56:18 »

Quote from: jolly on 12/05/2007 05:17:35

Liar! just wont admit it! night sleep well!

Jolly, what is going on with you and Kadie..? That seemd way inappropriate!

kdlynn · « **Reply #98 on:** 12/05/2007 11:22:27 »

nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate

Karen W. · « **Reply #99 on:** 12/05/2007 15:13:09 »

Quote from: kdlynn on 12/05/2007 11:22:27

nothing is going on and i think the other comment was aimed at paul's comment but either way it was inappropriate

Then you are ok? I was worried. Thanks kadie..